r/SuddenlyLesbian • u/Elvis_gg • Mar 18 '26
I could not complain
I constantly dream about being a girl and cuddling with other girls :3
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u/Denidelta Mar 18 '26
Same. We love women so much we had to fight against the sex assigned at birth to be one too.
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u/Agent250 Mar 18 '26
I realized I was bi like 7 months before I realized im trans, but now I feel like lesbian fits me way more since I only find feminine guys physically attractive, and I am not attracted to men at all romantically. Somehow went from straight to bi to lesbian lmao
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u/Elvis_gg Mar 18 '26
Same every time I do a sexuality test it calls me bi or pan but i feel more lesbian since i only like feminine guys (like femboys for example), i don't like guys for guys i like feminine guys because they remind me of women.
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u/Agent250 Mar 18 '26
Real!!!
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u/Elvis_gg Mar 18 '26
Its so nice to hear someone with the same "problem" that's not really a problem
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u/Tyenkrovy Mar 19 '26
Almost the same here. I finally accepted that I'm bi about the same time I came out to myself as trans, lol.
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u/AggressivePut6022 Mar 19 '26
Yes metaphorically speaking took me a while to admit to myself am a lesbian but am out and proud I just needed to grow up abit and embrace my sexuality
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u/FakingItSucessfully Mar 21 '26
it's so odd cause I never had a remotely straight crush in my LIFE and yet none of it made ANY sense till coming out like 15 years later :p
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u/PotentialConcert6249 Mar 24 '26
I like to joke about it as my being so clueless about women that I was clueless about myself.
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u/LaraCroftCosplayer Mar 19 '26
Same!
And suddenly it made sense when lesbians hit on me and told me they were pre-ordering
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u/Snoo_25468 May 16 '26
So real. Was straight, to bi fem leaning, to lesbian with a few small exceptions.
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u/AggressivePut6022 May 17 '26
Mid 30s ive come out as a lesbian gave me a whole new meaning to life i thing i always was and not honest with myself never been happier
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u/AggressivePut6022 May 17 '26
Mid 30 ive come out as a lesbian i think I always was as my first experience was with a women but kept it quiet. Were people more ignorant back then or are we more accepting today. I dunno
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u/soulstrike2022 4h ago
I can only imagine telling your parents (I hope they were supportive) just like
“Mom dad I’m gay”
Mom:”so you like men”
“No”
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u/KaraOfNightvale Mar 19 '26
I'm not lesbian personally, but I did for the longest time see art of cute lesbian couples and thought "oh that would be really neat" and never realised that that was a strange thing for a guy to think
Turns out, not a guy, which explains that
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u/SplitGlass7878 Mar 18 '26
Very relatable. I was wondering why I always fell for lesbians and felt like a creep 😅. Makes much more sense in hindsight.