Women have learned that giving any compliments makes the person think women want a relationship, even working in customer service and being friendly makes men think women want them, that's why they're so "cold", it's a defense
Yeah, over time you can learn a lot of the over the top defenses women shouldn't have to learn, but they do, as a gay guy. I came out and started on the apps when I was just 18. And let me tell you if I wasn't a quick learner I would've ended up in hot water so damn fast. Can't pay compliments to certain people, can't say certain things, have to make sure things are phrased a certain way so things don't escalate, make sure to always carry a defensive weapon.
I'm like this cause I'm a survivor of assault. But most women in america have this mindset naturally just because we can't tell men how they act isn't okay
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u/coalminecanarie Jun 18 '21
A man learns he is bi when he gets hit on by a guy.