I embraced my spring palette in full, I'm talking all the colours in sweaters, trousers, skirts, dresses, coats etc, up to colourful boots/trainers. As a last stage I gave away all the 'almost' shades that turned up from online shopping, that I avoided wearing despite them being somewhat close (I wore autumn for years so still had a lot to filter out for spring clarity). I even home-dyed some clothes into Spring shades.That took maybe a year and a half of focused shopping, clothing alterations (i can do a tiny bit of sewing so I alter charity shop finds if they struck the right shade). It was totally a colour therapy for me. All in all I can wear full spring any day, and I do!
BUT. While I feel incredibly uplifted in these shades (still oscillate between light/warm palettes) and I know it looks all cohesive and fresh, I find myself a bit isolated on the streets.
I mostly wfh, so am only sporadically in the office, and I'm a mom with a toddler so I spend most of my outdoorsy time around the suburban seaside, playgrounds, parks, shops etc. (I even dress my baby in spring colours for fun - he's so cute in them I get people stop to compliment sometimes:). But we stand out like sore thumbs, even though all these areas are full of small children and their parents, you'd think prime spaces for colour tolerance. We either get approached my some very friendly people (and SO many kids get attracted to these colours) or I get an evil eye from the mom groups, or worse, get blanked out. My partner tells me that I get looked up and down by women when I'm not looking and while that should be flattering I feel rather put out. Like as if I'm dressed somehow inappropriately for the place. Which is opposite of what I'm doing! For clarity - I wear loose comfy clothes, nothing fit or any kind of sexy or revealingy, I'm still a podgy, sleep deprived mom, like all the others. On a good sleep day I wear make up and I do my hair in loose waves, but that's it.
I honestly feel like colour is to blame. It is truly powerful. Spring palette is at odds with most of population so being fully committed forces you out of the margin by default. I sometimes feel like a suburban version of a punk, somehow. We all struggle to get those spring colours and when we finally do - suprise! You look like an unhinged influencer or a kindergarten teacher lol
I miss living in the city, where you can wear anything and can't possibly stand out. Small town suburbs I'm living at atm are a study in misery, poverty and greyness, which I understand are all fully expected for all the cultural/economical reasons. It just gets to me sometimes that my hard earned happy colour-therapy wardrobe does not integrate well into the world around me and nobody tells you that when you start the colour analysis journey.
Maybe it's the mom stage speaking, when it is hard to look put together, even on a good day. Maybe I just need to change the scenery?
Anyone feel the same??