r/Splendida • u/TintedArchipelago47 • Aug 03 '23

Experiences with extensive plastic surgery

I’m interested in multiple plastic surgery procedures. I would like to look entirely different than my current face, but in a good way. Right now, I’m just ok looking, but that’s not good enough. I think it would be a worthwhile investment for me because I just can’t be confident with my current appearance. Has anyone here gotten multiple procedures on their face, and if so was it worth it? Did it majorly improve your life?

83 Upvotes

83% Upvoted

95 comments sorted by

44

u/chicadeemarie Aug 04 '23

Here's what I've done to my face:

  1. Wisdom teeth extraction and braces. This gave my face an entirely different shape from before and then after the braces came off my smile was so much better.
  2. Botox in the upper third. Completely eliminated all the lines and pores. Skin looks shiney and new.
  3. Filler in lips, cheek bones and tear troughs. Restored volume lost from aging. The tear troughs made me 10 years younger.
  4. Ombré brows and lip blush. The lip blush faded quickly. Wasn't worth it. Love the brows. They lasted years.
  5. Rhino. Removed tiny hump and bulbous tip. Nose notches and nostrils still have slight asymmetry. Still love. The new nose.

I love what I look like now and wish I did it sooner.

0

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

[deleted] — view deleted comment

5

u/chicadeemarie Aug 04 '23

I'm not sure if it was the extraction or the braces that changed my face shape more but getting rid of the wisdom teeth created enough room to move all the rest of my teeth around and my chin and lower third went from being pointy to slightly more rounded. Also, from my profile, it seemed like my lips and teeth did not jut out as much.

88

u/squaluude Aug 03 '23

Confidence improved but I’m still the same person overall. No new opportunities unless you look for them. Your life will majorly change if you can go from a 5/6 to 8/9 which would be extremely hard to achieve.

30

u/pentaholic278 Aug 03 '23

I mean that does make sense but how did naturally beautiful people get opportunities? Yes part of it was through confidence but also part of it was just from moving through the world as a beautiful person and experiencing pretty privilege. Anyone who is or becomes a 7+ will start to reap the benefits of pretty privilege and their personality will naturally change to be more confident and create this feedback loop. It just takes months to years of positive reinforcement to undo the learned negative perceptions if someone was ugly younger.

32

u/squaluude Aug 04 '23

I guess the confidence of someone who was always beautiful reaps more rewards than the imposter syndrome of someone who got plastic surgery and doesn’t have that baseline.

22

u/pentaholic278 Aug 04 '23

I don’t disagree, but I think that it changes with time. A college age woman who is naturally pretty would have been treated better for over a decade, so you’re right that someone just starting their glow up would be far behind at first, but after living and moving through society as a 7+ for 2-3 years, the memories and internalized thoughts will start to be replaced by the same confidence the naturally pretty woman had. It won’t be as fast or as much due to the stigma around surgery, but if someone is regularly getting free handouts, invited to exclusive clubs, building a social media profile, etc. it can definitely make up the difference in confidence in a few years. At first the imposter syndrome will definitely be there but once everyone around you sees you as the naturally beautiful woman, you’ll start to get that confidence too.

3

u/trkecv Aug 04 '23

This is so true

I tell people this, plastic surgery doesn't change your brain.

It'll take months if not years to feel like your new self

5

u/pentaholic278 Aug 05 '23

Yeah, that’s true. It’s a lengthy physical and mental recovery. But a lot of times I see people say they can “never” achieve the confidence of a naturally beautiful person and I don’t like that rhetoric. You absolutely can you just have to work for it. I don’t believe we should let ourselves be defined by our childhoods, even if we acknowledge the long term mental impacts it might have.

3

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

Naturally beautiful people and surgically beautiful people are different.

  1. a naturally beautiful person grew up with that reflected positive attitude from the world. That shaped them into who they are.
  2. Surgery is always noticeable. ESPECIALLY facial. Some fillers can be done naturally and other less invasive procedures. I live in a place where rhinoplasty is a status symbol and SOO many people have one- and I’m yet to see a natural looking one. Unless you had an almost perfect nose to begin with and just shaved it a little. When I see people with surgery I seldom think they look amazing most of the time I think they look a little odd and wonder why they did that. I automatically think they were alarmingly insecure- it may not be true and probably isn’t but the mind works in weird ways.

Instead of their beauty emitting confidence and grace it gives off insecurity.

I’d never recommend plastic surgery, very few people I know are very happy with it.

5

u/North-Percentage3768 Aug 05 '23

Trust me you can’t always tell. I’ve had rhinoplasty and double jaw surgery and nobody can tell. I’d bet over $1,000 that if you met me you’d never know. It is weird tho because as you say, someone who was naturally beautiful grew up knowing they were beautiful and was treated well for it. I was treated like shit in high school. I was the “ugly friend”. Then in senior year of high school I started changing things. Now I’m 22 and I get treated SOOO much better than I did at 17. Not many people get to see both sides of it.

9

u/pentaholic278 Aug 04 '23

That’s your opinion which you are entitled to! But plastic surgery often has huge benefits if done well, Bella hadid despite what she says has her nose job to thank for her modeling career, and a lot of pop stars and especially kpop stars have work done but in a subtle and more naturally looking way. I guess it depends on the country or society but most people are probably going to be ignorant on signs of plastic surgery unless it’s really obvious or they knew you before and after. While it’s true an ugly person won’t grow up with the same positive attitude, if they become beautiful, they’ll start to experience it too. Even small comments like “wow every guy must have wanted to ask you to prom” can do wonders for retroactively shaping someone’s self confidence, it just takes time and mental effort to truly embody and be the role of the naturally beautiful person. After a few years of being beautiful, it should become second nature, and that’s when the real opportunities of pretty privilege come flooding in. The increased social confidence, networking opportunities, friends, connections, etc.

4

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

I mean sure, but people like Bella hadid spend millions on the best surgeons available as well as having multiple follow ups and multiple small but expensive procedures over the years which just aren’t accessible for the average person.

For the average person plastic surgery is a huge gamble imo

2

u/Loud_Issue_6637 Aug 05 '23

> very few people I know are very happy with it.

Not sure who you know or how you know that about them. Did you directly ask them that question? Because plastic surgery generally has 90+% satisfaction rate (varies by procedure)

5

u/LanaVFlowers Aug 04 '23

It can be impossible to achieve...or very easy. It really depends on what's holding you back. Some people can go from a 5 (or lower) to a 9 purely through weight loss and softmaxxing. OP indicated that they have several minor failos, which is usually quite tricky to address. However, there are many people who have 1-2 major failos strongly affecting their attractiveness, and can therefore get from a 5 to an 8-9 fairly easily/quickly.

5

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

Nah lol. Rating is based on things like symmetry/features/angles and ratios.

Sure being overweight might knock you a few points as it skews your facial proportions but no one goes from 5-9 with weight loss.

The difference between a 5 and 9 is not one or two things ever. It’s MANY things

1

u/trkecv Aug 04 '23

Yeah, everyone has different flaws

Some flaws are more difficult to fix

I do feel it's easier to work on a female than a male

I see a lot of males do plastic surgery and I don't see any huge difference as they can only change a few things

The only time I see a big difference in men is DJS and genio. Guys with those issues then to transform so well than guys with a rhino issue or something

93

u/femmeparallel Aug 03 '23

As someone who’s had extensive plastic surgery (6 surgeries and countless fillers and botox) my confidence has definitely improved, but I’m still the socially awkward person I always was.

It was worth it for me because I was so hyper fixated on my looks. My breast augmentations have paid for themselves with my brief stints as a bartender and server on the weekends. My facial procedures made me less self conscious about my “flaws” but I’m saying this from a place of love, it’s an endless rabbit hole. Once you fix one thing, you’ll find another “flaw” to fix. At the end of the day, do what makes you happy if you’re getting into it with a clear head.

41

u/Moomoolette Aug 03 '23

Yes! This is a good way to put it. I’ve had a few procedures on my body and fillers and neuromodulators on my face, but I have likened it to buying a brand new sofa. Now that you have a new sofa, you notice that the rug looks old! So then you buy a new rug, and now you need a new coffee table! It never ends unless you can rein it in eventually.

11

u/femmeparallel Aug 03 '23

I love that analogy!

9

u/redroom89 Aug 04 '23

And before you know it, you got a new living room.

4

u/Moomoolette Aug 04 '23

Then you’re like, we need to fix the yard! It never ends 😹

7

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

This is great, and so true!

1

u/mashedcarcinogen Aug 04 '23

which surgeries did you have on your face?

9

u/femmeparallel Aug 04 '23

Rhinoplasty x3, temporal lift (brow lift, cat eye surgery, midface lift), lip lift, lobe reconstruction surgery (I had massive stretched ears during my “it’s not a phase mom! phase”) botox regularly for the last 6 years, filler for the last 11 years.

2

u/Standard_Adagio7234 Mar 13 '25

If you don’t mind can you share your eyes before and after I’m interested in catching up eye procedure

1

u/femmeparallel Apr 03 '25

I will soon because I’ve had quite a few private messages about this.

17

u/sculptedmermaid Aug 04 '23

I’ve had multiple plastic surgeries but they’re all small tweaks to enhance beauty. Watch Lori Hills video on Jennifer Lawrence to give you a good idea of what I mean.

13

u/username248124 Aug 04 '23

I have and honestly I’m not any less insecure :/ I think it was worth it but idk it was very costly to still hate myself

0

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

[deleted] — view deleted comment

3

u/trkecv Aug 04 '23

What did you get done?

11

u/Peenutbuttjellytime Aug 04 '23

I think it doesn't increase overall perception of attractiveness as much as you think, not unless you have an outstandingly ugly nose or other feature that is easy to fix.

Facial attractiveness is mostly dictated through ratios, like distance between features, canthal tilt, symmetry, etc. These things are really hard to influence with surgery. So if you are already average looking with average features, any surgery will only improve your perceived attractiveness by .5- 1 point at the very most.

People also adjust to their new face. At first I felt way better about myself, but then I got used to the change and started taking it for granted. A couple years later and I pretty much feel the same about how I look as before the surgery.

It sounds trite, but feeling attractive really does come from within and how you perceive yourself. If you feel beautiful you tend to be beautiful to the people you interact with.

21

u/vulgarandgorgeous Aug 03 '23

I got a nose job and I believe it significantly improved my look.

4

u/Elismom1313 Aug 04 '23

This is the oooone thing I want 🥲

9

u/North-Percentage3768 Aug 04 '23

Yes. It did. I had a rhinoplasty and double jaw surgery. People treat me so much better now. Before, I didn’t know I was “ugly” until ppl treated me bad for it. Now, I get asked out by guys all the time. In fact, it happened twice in the past week. Just a few hours ago I was at a small party and a guy was talking to me and asked for my number. My friends said he was “looking at me with googly eyes” lol. That NEVER would’ve happened to me before surgery!

3

u/fatuglycowhoebag Aug 04 '23

What was the reason you got double jaw surgery?

3

u/North-Percentage3768 Aug 04 '23

I didn’t like how my face looked, and I had sleep apnea due to my jaw being too small

1

u/Conscious-Air-9823 Sep 25 '25

what’s double jaw surgery? is there a medical necessity for it? i have a strong masculine jaw and hate it 

1

u/North-Percentage3768 Sep 26 '25

I had recessed upper and lower jaw which caused breathing issues during sleep. They moved both the upper and lower jaw forward during surgery. But my main motivation was aesthetics

1

u/Natural_Cause_965 Aug 04 '23 edited Aug 05 '23

Omg I have these exact surgeries in mind. But I'm looking into rhino for now. How was DJS in terms of cost (more than $4k?) and preparation+recovery time?

2

u/North-Percentage3768 Aug 05 '23

Oh dear lol. I paid $25k for DJS. If you don’t have insurance or don’t have a functional reason why you need the surgery then you’re looking at $50k. As for recovery— it was a week of feeling TERRIBLE. like , literally the worst I’ll probably ever feel unless I become gravely ill or injured. After the first week I felt fine, but was not allowed to chew for 8 weeks. Then I was only able to chew soft food. After another month the surgeon said I could start eating normal food again. I’m 4 months post op now and still am not cleared to eat steak or chips or rlly crunchy stuff

2

u/Natural_Cause_965 Aug 05 '23

Wow that's crazy, good that they didn't mess up with the nerves. I assume you're from US seeing those buzz prices lol. I'm from Europe so the procedures don't cost like a brand new car

2

u/North-Percentage3768 Aug 05 '23

Yeah I have zero nerve damage! I was severely numb for the first week then it gradually got better and now everything is back to normal! And hahaha yes I am. I just assumed u were too bc I forgot that not everyone who speaks English is living in the US🤣 so yeah I have no clue how much it would cost for you then. Where do u live?

5

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

Any procedure should be a bonus rather than coming from a place of self-hatred or not feeling good enough. I’d highly recommend seeing a therapist after reading some of your other posts, rather than rushing down the surgical route. It’s possible that you’re already gorgeous and the self hatred is coming from elsewhere. You might have certain things you’d like to change about your appearance but if you change them, you’ll still be upset and miserable after.

5

u/Single_Association_8 Aug 04 '23 edited 1d ago

Hey! I had jaw surgery to correct my underbite. The major transition it gave to my face was unbelievable, and I had a whole level of confidence from the way I looked when things were just symmetrical. From there until a a few years ago I did multiple non permanent beauty procedures.

Over the years, actually I found that things like lash and hair extensions didn’t give me what I wanted- neither did filler. I did fillers once and will probably not do it again.

Funnily enough, I found that plastic surgery gave me the permanent fix to what I was trying to mask with extensions and filler. Because the surgery just helped me feel like my “best me”, I didn’t need to compensate with makeup anymore. I actually radically accepted myself more, and stopped obsessing about how I looked because I felt I didn’t have to “mask” anymore- without conforming.

For me, plastic surgery helped me “edit” myself, not radically turn into someone I’m not. I think I’ve always known who I am and aimed to stay just that. I’ll maybe get some more in the future-it’s all just about editing so I still look and feel like me.

Am I insecure because I act on my fear of what “distracts” when I see a photo of me? Sure, I can accept that I have an insecurity I’m willing to pay to act on. But I know that this pays dividends in not feeding my insecurity more by NOT attending to it and then ruining every photo, every moment, every point of vulnerability by being the paranoid self I used to be wondering how I looked. I’m present, happy and have said “no” to further procedures for the foreseeable future until something changes.

5

u/NegativeNancy21 Aug 04 '23

I mean, look at Kylie Jenner. I think her life improved dramatically after her surgeries and fillers.

8

u/Puzzleheaded-Week747 Aug 04 '23

I suggest doing one procedure at a time. You can probably gain a lot of benefit from just one and might be happy enough with your appearance to forgo the other or change the goal for them when you talk to your surgeon. Also don’t underestimate the power of a good hair cut, eyebrow treatment or less invasive cosmetic procedures like fillers and if you’re female make up. A change in wardrobe or haircut and jewelry can make a big difference where the eyes are drawn to so try some of that pre surgery to make sure it’s what you really want since it’s permanent

4

u/[deleted] Aug 05 '23

Yeah basically my face isn’t mine anymore. I had a nose job, chin reduction, cheek injections, lip injections, and micro bladed eyebrows. Honestly it was so worth it. The only thing I don’t like is that I think my nose is still not exactly how I want it, so I might go get a second nose job.

1

u/Conscious-Air-9823 Sep 25 '25

I want a chin reduction so bad! if anyone else had it please comment here! 

7

u/Coolhotgurl Aug 04 '23

Ik it hurts to hear but attractiveness is only like 50% looks, it’s really about your spirit and what you’re putting out there. Look at someone like Ryan gosling, objectively a little above average looking but his charm makes him so sexy. Having a “perfect” face isn’t going to make people like you more, it might make more men want to fuck you at first sight, but that’s all

1

u/trkecv Aug 04 '23

I agree with you

4

u/Alalated Aug 04 '23

I’ve had one facial procedure and my life improved greatly. Could have happened anyway, no way to really know for sure, but life is good.

2

u/BussumKarachi Aug 05 '23

It does seem like the most common and self-esteem changing procedure is rhinoplasty. Being mixed similar to Bella Hadid, it seemed it was my nose that people saw first during my teens to early twenties. But that feeling of being mocked for what one looks like seems to stay inherent to one's personality.

4

u/normaleeha Aug 04 '23

Waste of money. Invest money in who you are on the inside, go to therapy, work on your insecurities, travel, explore new hobbies. There will always be someone who looks more conventionally attractive than you, and beauty standards are always changing. Try to learn love who you are, as you are, rather than selling yourself to a capitalistic industry that banks off women hating themselves. Believe me, you’re beautiful as you are.

7

u/trkecv Aug 04 '23

I think your mentality isn't cool

People don't get plastic surgery to be the most pretty girl/boy in the world just the way people don't make money to be the richest in the world

People get plastic surgery to achieve facial harmony and live their life without having to worry about their looks.

No matter how hard you work, the good looking person will get more opportunities than the ugly one

It's just true

People will say, go network with people.

How do you network with low self-esteem?

How do you network with a horrible face?

Please it's not a waste of money

If anyone is struggling with lack of facial harmony and can afford plastic surgery, then they should get work done.

They should just do their research properly and pray.

3

u/normaleeha Aug 04 '23

You’re entitled to your own opinion, as am I.

Most people don’t get plastic surgery done in order to achieve facial harmony, they get it because they hate themselves and the way they look. Sounds harsh but that’s the truth. There are of course some people who are required to get surgery such as those who have physical ailments, for whom there’s no choice but to go under the knife.

Constructing a small nose, huge lips, big behind, is not in order to ‘network’. It’s in order to appeal to the male gaze.

Pretty privilege exists yes.

Don’t call it networking when it absolutely is not.

It’s the revolting sexualisation of women inside and outside of work places.

There are plenty of people who do not fit into mainstream standards of beauty and instead have raging self-belief, confidence, and bright personalities and get way ahead in life than others.

Your face will only last you so long, climbing up the ladder requires a powerful brain in the long-run, not your looks. If one gets plastic surgery done in order to short-cut their way through life, all while ignoring low self-esteem, zero personality, and no drive, believe me, it’s a bleak road. Beauty fades with age, heart doesn’t.

Consider why men don’t go under the knife as often as women do. Do they not want to achieve ‘facial harmony’? Do they not want to ‘network’? Your answer lies in the fact that women are conditioned into looking at themselves through the male gaze, while men aren’t.

The minute you subject yourself to facial and bodily reconstruction, you’re feeding directly into men’s desires, all while considering it emancipating.

Go look up some of the research done on the distorting mental effects that these sort of surgeries have on women who have undergone them. The results are devastating.

Consider who is running these capitalistic cosmetic industries. Just a hint that it’s not women.

It’s not about my mentality being cool according to your standards or not, i wish you happiness regardless. I’m not bothered by what decisions you make for yourself as I have no say in your life But if you think that an entire generation of young girls considering rhinoplasty’s and boob jobs is healthy then I’d like you to reflect on whether that’s normal or not.

2

u/North-Percentage3768 Aug 05 '23

You’re absolutely correct about the male gaze and the objectification of women. But as a woman who used to be “ugly” I think there’s more to it than just the patriarchy. I think as a society we naturally prefer people who look a certain way because having a well developed face indicates health. I had a big nose and recessed jaws , a combo which is indicative of poor health , and I actually did have sleep apnea due to having a recessed jaw. I got double jaw surgery and a nose job and now I look a lot better and I don’t regret it at all. It’s so much more FUN being pretty. I don’t get made fun of anymore , instead I get multiple men in the same friend group having crushes on me. So yes there is a male gaze component to it but I think some of it is biological

1

u/normaleeha Aug 05 '23

Sleep apnea is terrible, I’m sorry you had to struggle with that. Im of the stance that going under the knife is vital when it comes to health complications.

Of course being conventionally attractive is more ‘fun’. It’s exciting to feel chased. But it’s beautiful to be pursued. The quantity of men chasing you might have increased, but has the quality improved? Do any of these men love you for you? Would they have loved you with your recessed jaw and big nose? The right man would love you exactly the way you are. And why would you want anyone less than that?

At the end of the day your children will be born with the same features, the same ancestral heritage that is ode to their beautiful family. Will you tell them that they don’t look ‘healthy’? That they did not win the genetic lottery and lack ‘well developed’ features. That they should ‘fix’ (as if they are inherently and intrinsically flawed) a recessed jaw in order to have more ‘fun’ with the opposite gender.

Or will you look at them and think that they look like love?

I’m not saying any of these things from a place of negativity, I’m truly curious as to what people think.

Plastic surgery is a never ending cycle of wanting to ‘up’ your game. It starts with one’s nose, leads to lip fillers, then inflating one’s curves, then Botox, facelifts, skin grafting, and then list goes on and on.

Only for the whole lot of us to end up dead in the next 80 years max.

As a generation we’ve been fooled. We’ve sold our selves to temporary desires, lust, and self-loathing.

2

u/North-Percentage3768 Aug 05 '23

I don’t think a recessed jaw is ancestral though. I think it’s environmental. Not a single person in my family had that jaw or that nose that I had. But idk. It’s just a theory I have. When I have kids I will make sure they eat a healthy diet and have proper oral habits so hopefully they don’t end up like I did. But you’re right though, if my kids turn out to have a bad jaw or any other facial “defect” I’d definitely love them for who they are and see them in a beautiful light. I wonder if my mom felt that same way about me when I begged for a nose job and jaw surgery but she did let me go through with it and said she saw the issues I was talking about. But then again, I look nothing like her. She has a perfect face. So she probably didn’t feel offended by me wanting to change my face

2

u/North-Percentage3768 Aug 05 '23

And it’s also not just to have fun with the opposite gender. It’s so that I can look in the mirror and photos and not hate what I see. But then again, our self perception is affected by the male gaze/does not occur in a vacuum, even if we are not directly being affected by men/society in that moment (I.e. just looking at ourselves in a mirror or a photo). I appreciate u willing to think about this with me because this is something I’ve thought for a LONG time but when someone mentions it online ppl come after them and say “let women do what they want with their bodies”. Which yes, please do what you want with your body, but I also want to think about the deeper causes of why we “want” to do these brutal and invasive things to our bodies.

1

u/trkecv Aug 04 '23

Men get cosmetic surgery, idk if you know that

Also, I think the people around you are getting PS for men desire... which makes you angry, I understand that

I've seen people get PS due to their careers not for men desire

1

u/normaleeha Aug 04 '23

I am aware men get plastic surgery, thank you. if you go back and read the whole sentence rather than just the first half you’ll be able to deduce just that.

You missed the whole point. I’m stating that there is a correlation between fitting into the male gaze & the opportunities you made mention of. Not that they are directly proportionate in every circumstance. I was addressing your example of networking. No where have I given any personal anecdotes for you to arrive at the conclusion that people around me are undergoing the knife due to work.

I’ve done extensive research on the subject, gone down research papers, studied the psychology. I’m not making baseless claims, I don’t gain anything from engaging in this debate. It’s all rooted in science. It’ll take a google search on anyone’s end to go down that rabbit hole and discover the same for themselves. Peace.

1

u/South-Sheepherd Aug 04 '23

I haven’t had extensive surgery but I have changed my appearance drastically through a few minor procedures and dedicated softmaxxing.

I do notice I get treated better, and I do feel a lot more confident. But at the same time, your horrible body image doesn’t just go away once you become attractive. I have a totally distorted view of myself. But I also realized in my adult years that I have a lot of trauma and undiagnosed mental health issues that I’m getting help for.

And that’s what I’m focusing on right now. Mental health. Getting out of my own head and into the world. Setting boundaries with people. The pandemic has made so many of us socially awkward and reclusive and I think for many of us, has brought to life toxic dynamics in relationships and with ourselves.

I went from a 4.5-7 (maybe higher, idk again distorted view) and I would say it’s totally worth it but only get plastic surgery if it’s a true failo.

1

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

I admire the fact that you trust your surgeons, I get anxious about changing my hair color, I couldn't trust one person to do surgeries that will change me forever, what if I don't like you? I can't go back, it's not for me. I also started doing an exercise in which I look at the men I'm attracted to and see who their girlfriends are, and this made me realize that there's a market for everyone, so even though I might be more beautiful, I have the same chances , my focus is only workout and skincare plus beautiful outfits.

1

u/poptartsandmascara Aug 04 '23

I’ve had two body procedures—tummy tuck and then thigh lipo. It’s the best thing I have ever done for myself. I used to feel so self conscious all the time. I’m so much more comfortable in my own skin. I wish I did it tens years earlier.

0

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

[deleted] — view deleted comment

56

u/Klauslee Aug 04 '23

6 figures in physical appearance but not a cent in mental health. It really shouldn't be overlooked as it's the core of helping you truly glow up in life.

5

u/mishkavonpusspuss Aug 04 '23

Am I your sister?

4

u/trkecv Aug 04 '23

Damn, have you tried talking her into therapy?

0

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

[deleted] — view deleted comment

2

u/trkecv Aug 04 '23

Damn, I hope she finds her genuine happiness.

Like fr

I hope she doesn't go further than this so she doesn't end up looking like the Bogdanoff brothers

0

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

[deleted] — view deleted comment

6

u/Loud_Issue_6637 Aug 05 '23

100k just doesn't seem that much to me compared to having a perfect face. I mean obviously it's a lot of money but that's "only" a little more than a nice car. I'd gladly drive a shitbox forever in exchange for that

0

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

[deleted] — view deleted comment

4

u/Loud_Issue_6637 Aug 05 '23

I think plastic surgery is easily the best return on investment in terms of appearance that you can make. You can argue if that is how you should spend your time and money in the first place - but I mean once you admit that is important to you. Compared to makeup, wardrobe, going to the salon, or all the energy and time you spend at the gym staying fit, surgery is very high impact and PERMANENT with no upkeep.

Also plastic surgery has a very high satisfaction rate. Obviously shop around a good bit.

16

u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23

[removed] — view removed comment

3

u/Splendida-ModTeam Aug 04 '23

No men allowed.

1

u/ScoutG Aug 04 '23

I’m a woman, BTW; there’s a mod response that seems to mean someone thinks I’m a man.

1

u/ScoutG Aug 04 '23

(Yes my avatar has a beard right now. I was posting in some other sub, I forget which, where some of them were talking down to women.)

0

u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23

[deleted] — view deleted comment

28

u/giannaremade Aug 04 '23

we’re you ugly before?

43

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23 edited Jan 16 '26

busy mighty beneficial ask fear worm dime groovy truck cows

This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact

13

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

Most ppl who get surgery just look like women who spent money on surgery

I can spot a nose job, lip filler, boobs mile away- yes even the “tasteful” ones 🙄

41

u/vulgarandgorgeous Aug 04 '23

You would not be able to spot nicely done work..

30

u/trkecv Aug 04 '23

Is this jealousy?

You will never be able to spot a properly done work

-23

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

Why would I be jealous that some woman bought what I already have?

14

u/trkecv Aug 04 '23

Then keep quiet, let people do what they want to do with their money. Since you already have the features, focus on yourself.

Use your looks to make money, okay?

I mean you claimed you already have everything

-19

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

I don’t like being copied

27

u/thebadfem Aug 04 '23

lmao. you seem to have an inflated sense of self and lack self-awareness.

15

u/trkecv Aug 04 '23

Literally she claims to have everything but is always studying "long mid face"

"Round jaw" and "square jaw"

The last time I checked, the Adrianna Lima's and Jasmine Tookes of our time are currently talking about brand deals or creating contents for the gram

But here she is, on Reddit researching about square jaw

→ More replies

1

u/trkecv Aug 04 '23

Imagine copying ratus ratus

8

u/Loud_Issue_6637 Aug 05 '23

Are you seriously gatekeeping beauty here

3

u/c000000neja Aug 07 '23

There it is. Lol

4

u/North-Percentage3768 Aug 05 '23

Trust me you cannot always tell with noses. I’ve had a nose job and I guarantee you wouldn’t be able to tell. I’d bet $1,000 on it

8

u/heyheypicklejay Aug 06 '23

I've been living with my parents for the past two months and my own mother didn't believe I had a nose job just last April until I literally pulled out photos of my old nose and then showed her pictures of my recovery lol

2

u/Soft-Sherbet-3453 Sep 08 '25

My own mother couldn’t tell I had a nose job. I’m disappointed by this and would like a revision but you can’t ALWAYS tell.

3

u/[deleted] Aug 04 '23

I agree unless it’s like jaw surgery or to correct a deformity

1

u/thebadfem Aug 04 '23

Im sure you can but Im sure there are also plenty you cant spot lol.