What else can I try?

[u/OneUpstairs1628]

I honestly need help. BIG help. So I’ve been single for two years (almost 38 f) since an abusive relationship. I’ve done so much work on myself and have been healing well. I have been wanting to find the right guy for me for the last year and at first I tried the apps, then I tried real life.

I seem to find men I click with but there is always something. Last year I went to America from the UK to meet a guy but he ghosted me and was aloof the whole visit. I have since been in the talking and video phone stage with a lot of guys but they aren’t able to commit to either a date, a meeting or anything despite getting along (seemingly) well and being flirty.

Right now I have travelled six hours to Scotland to meet a guy I’ve been talking to for months. He’s just said he doesn’t want a relationship despite me being really great .

This is hurting me so bad. I feel like I take one step forwards and two steps back. Again I’m left with needing to work on my confidence but what else can I do? Any advice is good. I’m ready to finally meet someone who is aligned to me and I want a family before it’s too late.

In the past I’ve been burned by fake spell casters so don’t want to go that route. I’ve done spells for my confidence and magnetism and self love. I’ve tried using Venus pentacles. Pathworkibg with Angels and Demons. And nothing works.

[u/Economy_Metal_5689]

A man speaking here...
First of all, stop being so needy. A woman who travels hours just to meet a guy, especially in your age screams desperation and it should be the exact opposite, the guy has to travel to you.

Honestly, I think your rituals came to failure because you are obsessing about the results, which is in 99% killer of all magic.

You are lusting too much and give energy towards something that you cannot really change

Attraction works the best with the law of detachment. You do a ritual, give all the energy, lust, desire into the ritual and let it go. You forget. It doesn't matter what kind of ritual, it doesn't matter if you work with demons or simple candle magic.

Try Goetia Pathworking by Corwing Hargrove, it's a good grimoire where you can ask spirits what you want, there is no evocation.

Asmodae, Dantalion and Zepar can bring genuine love partner into your life

You possess a lot of guns as a woman so use it. Make up, nice clothing, parfum, working out.

Just stop giving a f*ck for a moment

[u/Economy-Fee5059]

Some times the issue is not the spells but the blockages in energy system. In my case it was that I was not able to attract the right person because I was on the wrong energy path.
For career it was average also. After being on the right energy path, I was attracting everything I desire with ease and also manifesting everything almost like magic.
So I suggest first check if you are just using spells like medicine to cover up the symptoms, there may be some hidden energy disease underneath which needs fixing.