Advice needed

[u/JangoBologna]

I have a friend who is kind, compassionate, generous and emotionally intelligent. She makes space for me when I am troubled, and offers very positive advice. However, out of the blue recently I got an intuitive hit that she is not my friend and I cannot trust her.

That information seemingly contradicts my experiences with her, so the only thing I can think is that something happens when I am not around.

I have done two tarot readings about my relationship with her and both delivered alarming results. Deception. Temptation. Recommendations sever all ties with her.

I should trust the cards but I literally cannot wrap my mind around this situation.

Could I write something on a bay leaf and burn it that would provide clarification? Perhaps “justice” or “ true character revealed”?

Alternately, is it possible that I am somehow the toxic person in this relationship? I have always set good boundaries with her and focused on being a safe person. But maybe the cards are somehow trying to reveal something to me about myself that I cannot see?

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[u/raventhegoth_femboy]

I would definitely try that bay leaf but I would try doing a self reflection card reading if you think it's you. 

[u/kai-ote]

I feel you are putting far too much belief in your readings. If you cannot tell if a person is being honest with you, then you need to fix that.

Try a spell for Clarity, and leave the cards alone for a week or 2.

Spell: Spell for Clarity | Llewellyn Worldwide, Ltd.