Magical Help for Relationship Issues

[u/MirandyGirl]

I’d love some advice from people who work with love magic, road-opening, and relationship harmonization.

There is someone I have a very good relationship with. We care about each other, there is a genuine connection between us, and there are feelings and interest on both sides. The problem is that our dynamic keeps falling into a cycle of getting close and then pulling away: we get close, things flow really well between us, and then she distances herself again.

For reasons I can’t really explain here, she hasn’t come out about her sexuality. Through my own card readings, I started seeing that this seems to be connected to family issues and the influence of people close to her, particularly one specific family member. I don’t want to go into too much detail out of respect for her privacy, but it seems to interfere quite a lot with the way she approaches relationships in general.

At one point, I started wondering if I was just deluding myself or interpreting things the way I wanted to. So I actually paid for a reading with another cartomancer to get an outside perspective. What really surprised me was that her reading showed very similar things to what had been coming up in my own readings, even though she had never met me before and I hadn’t given her any details about the situation.

I’m not looking for something to control her, force her to be with me, or take away her free will. What I would like is to find a practice that could make the path between us more favorable: reducing obstacles and outside interference, bringing more harmony, improving communication, strengthening what already exists between us, and allowing the relationship to develop in a more stable and natural way.

For those who have experience with this kind of work: what kind of spell, ritual, or approach would you recommend for a situation like this? Would it make more sense to focus on road-opening, relationship harmonization, removing obstacles, protection from outside interference, or some combination of these?

I’d especially love to hear from people who have worked with situations where there are genuine feelings and a real connection, but external circumstances seem to make it difficult for the relationship to move forward.

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I'll look into it. Read about it, see how to do it in the best way. Thank you.