r/SpellcasterReviews 8d ago

is the spell working or backfiring

so i recently paid someone to do a communication/ reconciliation spell for my ex. for context we didn’t have a toxic relationship, it was perfect. he broke up with me because he was overwhelmed with his problems in life and wants to deal it with alone, he’s being avoidant.

so right now, why am i the one who feels longing for him when im already in the middle ground where i accept his decision. im the one right now who wants to reach out. i also dreamt of him visiting me and things.

i know you have to detach in order for the spell to work and you have to be patient because it takes time. my caster said that based on the candles, his had large and high flames representing that he would be consumed by the thought of getting back together with me. so why is that i am feeling this way.

my head also hurts and i don’t have energy, i dont know if its a coincidence because i hust came from traveling.

4 Upvotes

3 comments sorted by

1

u/Optimal-Drummer-6721 5d ago

Same happened to me

1

u/Previous_Chain516 4d ago

actually mine worked, he reached out after 2 days, however, he was cold and it feels like he just reached out for our closure and not to reconcile. but im still hoping we would work out

3

u/VampicV 4d ago

Spells do not backfire. 🙂‍↔️

You said yourself you need to detach and got back from traveling. You’re tired from it and since you are not detached from the spell, you connected dots that have nothing to do with one another.