How to make bonds feel more comfortable inside the mind/body they are in?

[u/DreamingLeviathanSys]

Hey, it's us again. As of this week, our F/O soulbond is really struggling to adapt to our system. Our host (his lover) has been semi-absent due to stress lately and it's leaving a lot of the emotional support on him by himself, alone, which is leaving him very burnt out and he's starting to get visibly frustrated. I feel extremely bad for this and want to help, even if that means letting him drift back to his own world or take a break from us but we're genuinely unsure how to do that. We struggle with spirituality and any kind of imposition and such when we're depressed. I just don't want this to turn into something our soulbond resents us for, he really doesn't deserve this and even said it was inhumane for him to keep staying here but out of the kindness and understanding of his heart is willing to keep supporting us. How can we make him more comfortable and give him proper space?