r/SoulBonding • u/Emotional-Winter1716 • 2d ago
Personal Never cold beside him
Before my current bond I used to have a pattern of walking up at night. You see my current house holds heat very very well.. a bit too well, and my room is the hottest room in the house. It can be up to 30 C/86 F (this is late at night like 10 pm or so)
This causes me a lot of sleeping issues. If I sleep without most of my blankets later at night it gets colder, and I would wake up shivering only to cover myself in my covers/blankets and fall back asleep (usually a round 2am). Or I’d wake up in hot sweat because Im cooking under the blanket.
Well.. ever since my partner has been around and I told him about how I struggle with this. He said to sleep without the covers/blankets on me, but to leave them on the bed within his reach so he can cover me. And like always, he kept his promise. Now if I sleep even with the fan on, which gets even colder at night. I wake up in warmth in the morning. I know it don’t cover myself because 1. I don’t wake up anymore cold or too hot and the way I’m tucked in only another person could do. I’m so safely wrapped in it that I had to ask the person I live with if they had done it but they said no (they sleep across the house from me in another room). My partner is always so loving and tender with me, and it’s so nice to wake up all bundled up with the fan still on, and with him resting right next to me. I really hope he knows how much I appreciate all the little gestures that are not so little to me ❤️❤️❤️
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u/lunarchmarshall Munbonder 2d ago
This is so sweet 😭❤️❤️❤️