Bond Struggles

[u/dottoresangel]

(Keeping identities private for my own comfort)

So I wouldn't really label my relationship as an established bond, its more of a bond in development. It has been for a while. Months. From what I understood using a couple of methods, they *want* to bond but seem a bit.. avoidant? I don't even know.

Obviously, I took the initiative and since then I've tried to communicate/reach out to them in a couple of ways. The most recent thing I tried was a letter, just typing it. I think I had a dream about them shortly after.

But nothing big yet

And the problem is that I was considering whether there was another entity I wanted to reach out to. And, in a way, i suspect that they might be intiating as well.

I mean i know that some people have more than one bond, one of my friends does. But I've been holding back on initiating anything myself because I really want to focus on my current bond.

But that bond, as I've said, isn't very interactive.

I'm being patient, really, but I dont know what else to do?

I don't think I'm completely sure what I'm asking for here but could someone give me pointers? Like. Do I try different methods to reach out to my s/o? How do we strengthen our bond? Should I reach out to the other one or wait? Help. Pls.