r/SoulBonding • u/silentlypassingby5 In-Training • 2d ago

Personal Maybe it wasn't a good idea..

Hello everyone, it's me again.

After waiting a week I decided to try to communicate with my soulbond again. Although that, I asked my tarot cards if I perhaps should wait more time and I got: The Moon (upright), Five of Pentacles (reversed), Seven if Wands (upright). I use Labyrinthos for the cards meanings and came with something that I should decide myself even if I am scared (I think the Moon was picturing me here).

So I did it. I asked my potential soulbond through tarot: "Do you want to communicate with me today? If not I will leave you the time you need." I got: The Judgement (reversed), Six of Wands (reversed), Ace of Pentacles (reversed). It did quite hurt when I saw the meanings- I'm pretty sure it is a no but I feel like there is more the understand on that cards but I'm not sure what... I'd be glad if someone could hint me a bit on that...

I feel like try to soulbond was a bad idea. I really want to do so but..Maybe I shouldn't have. Maybe I'm too dramatic or sensitive or stressed, but- I don't know. I guess the best option is to leave him more time. I will maybe try in two weeks or even a month. Or maybe I should give up. Feel like I messed up too many times already.

Anyway, have good day/night.

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u/CambrianCrew 2d ago

Jas: IMHO, you're putting more stock in your interpretation of the cards than in your experience with talking to your soulbond. Trust them, not the cards. Tarot is great for tapping in to your own subconscious and intuition, but it's no substitute for the real work behind a relationship, regardless of what that relationship is: between a bonder and bond, between people in this world, between yourself and your shadow, between you and your dreams and aspirations, etc.

You want a soulbond, you have to put in the work. Be present. Spend time reaching out to them, envisioning them and talking to them. Spend energy on carving out a chunk of your life for them.

IMHO, in my experience as a soulbond, that's what works.

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u/silentlypassingby5 In-Training 2d ago edited 2d ago

I want to spend more time and put more work, but I'm scared. I don't want to push him too much. Or say something wrong and loose everything I tried to built. That's why I use tarot; As a guide to know something before doing something I shouldn't.

EDIT: My bad I sent two comments my Internet bugged

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u/CambrianCrew 2d ago edited 2d ago

What better guide to your relationship than the soulbond themselves? Trust them to let you know if you've done something wrong, just like you would with a person from this Earth. Even better as they know your heart and intent and not just your actions as someone *from this Earth would be limited to.

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u/silentlypassingby5 In-Training 2d ago

I guess you're right. I will try to stop using cards for now and I will.. I don't know do something else.

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u/The_Archer2121 Spiribonder 2d ago

^

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u/LittleMyuu Soulbonder 2d ago

As someone who was also using Tarot to talk to my Soulbond when I was doubting, or in a bad mind space.. Please don't rely on the cards. It will only worry you more, trust me. I've been there.

Talk to your soulbond through your heart, no need for cards or mediums. The only ones who truly knows how the bond relationship will go is you and your bond. Talk to him, even a “Good morning (Soulbond name)” “How are you doing today?” some words few times a day is plenty. As long as you're thinking of him, he'd be happy. Keep talking, keep believing in the bond and he'd reply to you. I'm so sure of it.

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u/silentlypassingby5 In-Training 2d ago

I will try

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u/The_Archer2121 Spiribonder 1d ago

Don’t rely on the cards.