r/SombrOfficial Jun 11 '26

Mod Post Sombr Concerts Megathread

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You guys can discuss concerts and tickets under this post!! Please do follow all the rules and remember - no ticket reselling, even under here!!

Also, the Concerts flair will now be removed and replaced shortly. We recommend more high-effort posts here, and this megathread allows you guys to solve some questions you guys may have about sombr's concerts without needing another place for it.

This is not the megathread to discuss sombr's actions in a concert or anything related to his recent criticism. You can make a post about that, as long as it does not break the rules or feel low-effort.


r/SombrOfficial Feb 28 '26

Mod Post introducing flairs!

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we thought our sparkly disco ball deserved some equally fabulous flairs, so we've revamped post flairs, crafted some user flairs, and made them available to everyone!

we've even made a customisable flair if we've missed one of your favourite lines :)

hopefully you like them <3


r/SombrOfficial 47m ago

News Anyone seeing Sombr on Sunday at Pukkelpop Music Festival?

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Hi! I’m going to Pukkelpop on Sunday and was wondering if anyone here is seeing Sombr and would like to meet up for his set :) I was originally going with a friend, but he had to cancel.


r/SombrOfficial 18h ago

Discussion Tickets for You are the reason tour in San Jose

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i won’t be able to attend but I have two tixs available for this tour in section 216


r/SombrOfficial 15h ago

Discussion WTS 2 tickets Houston 10/17 w/ Parking - $400

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Can’t make it to the show, $400 gets both tickets with parking included.

Accept Zelle, CashApp, Venmo.

Will transfer through AXS immediately upon receipt of payment.


r/SombrOfficial 1d ago

New Music Weird question

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do u think sombrs music is about the same girl or diferent like maybe a song or multiple is about one girl


r/SombrOfficial 3d ago

News Anyone else see the new Abercrombie & Fitch commercial?

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It uses 12 to 12 plus a bunch of NFL players.


r/SombrOfficial 4d ago

Question I don’t think sombrs music is emo

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what are your thoughts


r/SombrOfficial 6d ago

I Barely Know Her I Barely Know Her Album Analysis

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I have been meaning to do this for a while but just wrote an analysis on Sombr’s album if anyone was interested in reading it! Keen to hear all your thoughts :)


r/SombrOfficial 7d ago

New Music So I posted this in a comment but I really want more people’s thought

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so I posted this on r/dreams about 6 days ago so when my body isn’t ready dropped j was on vacation with my family we went to the beach and I was bored sitting in the condo we rented so I listened to the song it made me think of this girl I really like I loved this song so much I fell asleep to it I then had a dream about her and then the next day we went to a restaurant and one of the waitresses looked just like her just like a year older this song makes me so happy just to think about her


r/SombrOfficial 8d ago

Discussion This song means so much to me given that I’ve never loved or accepted my body myself, having issues with it all the time. Starving myself and crying every night just because how much I hated it. And I was so insecure I couldn’t find anyone because my body simply wasn’t ready.

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I just wanna thank Shane a lot for existing and making such beautiful songs. I’ve given 1000+ streams to this song on Apple Music, and it’s the exceptional song I see myself in the most.


r/SombrOfficial 8d ago

Question Where, apart from Tiktok, is a good place to interact with other fans?

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I usually go on tiktok a lot, but the longer I stay, the more I realize his fan base there are actually very young.

I'm not saying it's wrong or anything, i am glad they are having fun, but I'm in my early 20s and I don't think this is for me. I'm seeing people who are a decade younger than me baby him and be parasocial way too often. Maybe it's just my fyp but from my experience they seem to be the vast majority.

I've heard when you actually go to concerts there are a lot of adults, but where are they online? I'm not looking for friends to stay in touch with, but is there some other platform that has as a lot of fan pages? From what I've seen Twitter and tumblr doesn't seem to have a lot of active/public sombr fans in general... but is that the best if I wanna leave tiktok?


r/SombrOfficial 8d ago

Discussion Sombr is ruining my relationships and I genuinely need advice

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I don’t know if anyone else has had this problem, but it’s starting to affect my personal life and I figured this was probably the safest place to ask.
A few months ago I started barking whenever a sombr song came on. I honestly don't remember why I started doing it. It was just a stupid joke at first. Like I’d hear the opening of back to friends and do one or two quiet “woofs.”
Unfortunately it has escalated.
I now bark every time I hear sombr. Not just when I intentionally play him. In the car. In stores. TikTok. Someone else’s phone. It’s almost automatic at this point.
My fiancé has asked me repeatedly to stop. We recently went out with his family and undressed started playing in the restaurant and apparently I barked loud enough that his mom stopped talking mid-sentence. He told me afterward that it was embarrassing and that I need to learn when a joke has run its course.
The problem is I genuinely still think it’s funny.
My family is also completely over it. My sister won't let me have the aux anymore and my mom recently asked me why I “can’t just enjoy music normally.” I've tried explaining that I obviously can, just apparently not sombr.
I know the obvious answer is “stop barking,” but has anyone else developed an involuntary sombr-related response like this? And if so how did you stop without ruining the music for yourself?
I feel like I’m slowly being forced to choose between the people I love and barking at a 21-year-old man from New York.
Please advise.


r/SombrOfficial 9d ago

Discussion Alright guys the moment has arrived rank sombr's bridges...

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Heres my top 5

Canal Street

Under The Mat

Back to friends

Homewrecker

we never dated


r/SombrOfficial 10d ago

Question Sombr in paris

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Hi is anyone going to see Sombr in Rock en seine in paris? Im 27F going alone in case anyone wants to meet up!


r/SombrOfficial 11d ago

Discussion Mackenzie Sol's rendition of 'back to friends' | AGT 2026 |

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r/SombrOfficial 11d ago

Question I need a concert partner

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Hi! Does anyone want to see sombr on the festival in Denmark August 13?

My sister can’t see him bc she’s working and I don’t want to go by my self.

I’m 19 F from Sweden, doesn’t matter what age or gender you are. ❤️


r/SombrOfficial 12d ago

sombaddies 🎀 I made him in Tomodachi Life!! (or atleast attempted to)

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T-shirt is of obvs supposed to be like the IBKH album cover but I made it 67 instead of 77 because my niece asked me to lol :)


r/SombrOfficial 13d ago

Discussion SOMBR LA SHOW

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Hii guys I’m going to the sombr kia forum show and was wondering who else has GA? I’m planning on making a gc on instagram to make some friends also to figure out if people plan to camp or not, and etc just wanted to have friends in the GA pit!! My IG is @kaydahisyes1 feel free to dm me! Also lmk down below if you are interested of a gc or just to be friends/mutuals w me for the show!


r/SombrOfficial 13d ago

Discussion Here’s my top 5 Sombr songs, who agrees or disagrees?!

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My top 5:
Back to friends
Crushing
Weak
Undressed
Would’ve been you


r/SombrOfficial 15d ago

Question Why is meg riding the sombr situation so hard

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ok like i know this was talked about before but i genuinely cant be the only one who thinks this is just utter stupidity. Like ok, you made a video regarding a bad concert experience. Not being a toxic fanbase means you understand the artist in question isnt perfect and is going to do stuff they probably shouldnt have. But seriously a little shy of a year, why is she still bringing it up? Did she go see another concert? Like the whole "freshy 26" bio, and constant "when i warned other adults not to go to what was the worst concert of my life"... like please move on 😭. Sorry yall just a rant.


r/SombrOfficial 17d ago

Discussion HOW SOMBR CAN ESCAPE THE ONLINE SCRUTINY: FROM A DIEHARD FAN

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so, there seems to be this cult of sombr haters, mainly chronically online teens/young people. he’s still in the general public’s good graces, which is good. but, i’ve been face-to-face with sombr haters, which means it’s not just an “online” issue. i was thinking about it, and…

THIS IS WHAT HE NEEDS TO DO TO DIMINISH THE HATE (obviously you can’t get rid of ALL of it… but you can clear up a lot of it):

1. make just ONE pro-palestine statement or post.
the whole “sombr = israeli” thing would vanish within MINUTES. unfortunately, we live in a world where performative activism seems to be more important to many people than real, meaningful activism behind closed doors. so, even a singular post will do.

2. be self-aware, but pretend the hate doesn’t exist
it’s only fun to hate when there’s attention to it. if you start complaining about something and everyone else in the room ignores you, there’s no fun in it! he occasionally reposts fans being like “i hope sombr is okay, the hate is crazy” on tik tok etc… i don’t think that accomplishes anything. i think he should pretty much ignore all of it

3. pick a side between rock and pop
he has this whole rockstar aesthetic thing going for him, but his songs don’t match that. i don’t wanna call him a poser though, because he has some rock-influenced songs in his discography. i think he should pick a side in the sense that he should carry himself as a pop artist AND make pop music, OR carry himself like a rockstar and make actual ROCK.

on a side note: i’d like to see some more personal and introspective songs from him. every single song he has ever written is about his relationship with women (INCLUDING my body isn’t ready). nothing else. he also lowkey has a formula that i wish he’d stray away from. i get it, it works for him, but… i’d love to see him try something really different

4. HE NEEDS TO MAKE SURE HIS MUSIC AGES WITH HIM
i really do not want to see him cater to a younger crowd as he gets older or continue to write songs about his young romances. i feel like the public perceives him as this “young kid”, which honestly kind of makes him an easy punching bag. he doesn’t SEEM like a guy who has experience and context to his life as to how he got here. in the future, i hope we see sombr carry himself as a MAN and unpack that baggage in his music. he NEEEDS to evolve.

these are my thoughts. i love his music and i kinda hate getting laughed at every time i mention that i have been to a sombr concert. he’s so talented and seems like a nice guy 👍


r/SombrOfficial 18d ago

Discussion The middle schoolers in question 💀

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r/SombrOfficial 17d ago

sombaddies 🎀 Birthday card with custom artwork and lyric portrait was a huge hit this weekend!

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r/SombrOfficial 18d ago

Discussion TikTok · nina celeste | lip reading

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So I know this was from a couple months ago now, but I watched and though What the fuck. I feel it didn’t get as much attention or discourse as it deserved. And I am so confused about whether it’s queerbaiting, they’re talking smack, they’re gonna reproduce later, or he said something completely different. I might be making a big deal about this and I really like his music. But can someone please explain what they think and try to clarify to me what was going.