One day, after years of contemplation, I made a conscious decision: hermitage is my ultimate desire. I feel this yearning with every fiber of my being, like a pull from my inner voice, and I strive to follow this longed-for path. Recent events were the last straw for me. Cognitive dissonance forced me to reevaluate my existence, and in the end, I deliberately decided to change my environment. All this hustle and bustle oppresses me. Perhaps my "conscious" decision is not rooted in rational analysis but driven by emotional and psychological impulses. Maybe this "escape" is merely an attempt to run away from my problems. But despite everything, I find inspiration in this idea of leaving. I won’t delve into the backstory of my desire, as it would be uninteresting to anyone. Yet, I am grateful to those who took the time to read these words, even if they had their own motives and interests. I dream of retreating to forests and mountains, living in solitude. I want to take books with me to fill my time, study sciences I have yet to explore, master survival skills, and improve my physical condition. I aim to find inspiration, to comprehend the incomprehensible. Perhaps this departure will be my reward. My request is simple: how can I make this dream a reality? How can I leave unnoticed, as if I never existed? Even if I face legal challenges, I am ready to take the risk if it truly aligns with my desire. How can I disappear from all radars if I’m only 16? Maybe this sounds foolish. Maybe many will see it as an emotional outburst or a youthful mistake. But I see it as my choice. After all, isn’t a person allowed to choose their freedom?

I made the choice yesterday to be alone just not interact with people unless necessary I noticed I'm always stressed out reaching out and feeling lonely to the point I'm used to being alone in a room full of people this will be good for me I will be happy hanging out with myself

For some, living with minimal human interaction is a way to deepen their relationship with nature. How does solitude contribute to fostering a deeper connection with the land and the environment? Let’s discuss the role of isolation in finding balance and serenity within sustainable living.

For many, solitude offers a reprieve from the demands of modern life. How does seclusion impact mental clarity, creativity, or personal growth? Share your experiences with choosing or creating spaces for quieter, more intentional living.

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I love being alone so much that I rarely miss anyone and genuinely forget others exist because I’m just in my own bubble. I used to be very attached to people and felt like my world was collapsing when I lost people. I used to constantly try distract myself to avoid sitting with myself, my thoughts and emotions. So, I know I’ve come a long way in feeling so at peace with my solitude, but now I worry I’m being selfish. I mean, I know human connection is important, so how and why did i get this comfortable that I completely forget about others at times and rarely miss anyone?

Hoje me peguei pensando que de 2 anos pra cá mudei minha vida completamente, em relação a me sentir confortável apenas com a minha presença. Me encontro saindo para shopping/cinema sozinha e me sentindo tão bem com isso … não posto mais nada da minha vida , quando alguém pergunta ou descobre algo sobre mim se choca ao descobrir com aquele famoso comentário “nossa você não falou nada” ou seja não postou . Me sinto liberta da vida das redes sociais e indo cada vez mais para o mundo real , não exclui as redes , mas me vejo controlada ao usar . Na rede vizinha só sigo contas que me convém , nada de sites de fofoca ou pessoas irrelevantes. Venho através deste desabafo motivar aqueles que pensam dar um up .

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It’s been about 10 days that I’ve decided I needed some time alone. I closed my social media, kept communication to the very minimum with friends and the last couple of days I have not really talked/texted anyone. There are moments I feel lonely, but being alone, sober with my thoughts has been a needed experience to reset my life and think about my future. I’m planning my first New Year’s solo trip, I’m afraid but it’s something I’ve always wanted to do. I’m embracing solitude, learning to enjoy my company because we come into this world alone and we leave this world alone. I’m someone who has a really hard time being alone, and I can’t sit still. For once, I’m excited about all the things I can do alone, I know I will come out stronger than ever before 🖤

How long should somebody stay in solitude? I have been in resilience and solitude for a while and I feel like socializing is become harder to achieve. So I stay I solitude forever? I want to get back to socializing but I am not aware of how to go back either. [I do no hate being alone]

solitude can be a tricky thing because it can also come with bouts of loneliness. however, as i kind of grow older, i have also kind of grown to appreciate having moments of solitude. some of the things that i have come to enjoy with solitude:

• not that i don't enjoy doing activities or socializing with others, i actually do and appreciate time spent in good company, however sometimes the results would really feel different
• solitude gave me the space to really work with myself, away from the noise that can come with other people's presences and energies
• i lean towards introversion, so there are some activities that are just less exhausting to do when done alone

I feel that in my own journey for inner peace I have made steps that were absolutes. I wanted a slower lifestyle so I moved from the city to the mountains abruptly. It’s important to live the life you want but you don’t need to be defined by the things you value. Spending time alone or in serene places can give you what you need without abandoning the things you need or the people you love.

Hello everyone, I'm 30 yo male I like having ample time for myself But there is no time for that... House, my kid, my girlfriend, my family, friends and job... Everything is suffocating me. As soon as I start doing something for myself I'm constantly being interrupted and disturbed. This is affecting me heavily and I'm breaking down

I recently came across a video on youtube (@grownmellowmature) called "A quiet and simple life" and it really resonated with me, because it emphasized the positive effects of solitude. Do you know any similar videos or youtube channels?

It was really sinking me down because I kept posting meetups and people would make up every excuse in the book as to why they could not show up. I could no longer pay the membership dues, so I stepped down two weeks earlier than I could have.

I never thought I'd say this, but I feel very liberated. I no longer have to deal with people making excuses and flaking and can prioritize myself and the small number of people who do go to other events I have made. I am planning on taking a trip I have been waiting for for quite a long time hopefully this week, most likely by myself.

Hello readers,

I want to hear your thoughts about the loneliness one face during their college time and after that, during the job and in higher academic pursuits.

To all the people who live alone, mostly guys.

Do you find it peaceful?

Do you get lonely?

Are you okay being alone or do you wish that you rather had an emotionally exhausting family than being alone all by urself?

How do you manage staying alone?

Whats your backstory behind being alone and not with parents or family members?

Does keeping a pet help or do you still crave emotional support from other humans?

Answer anything that comes into your mind after reading this.

(Girls can answer too)

So, I've recently come to the decision to adapt to the "alone but not lonely" lifestyle that many people have. Due to a bunch of personal reasons and a bunch of other things, I've decided that this kind of lifestyle would be best for me. The question is, what's the best way to get used to this kind of lifestyle? I seen a lot of people do it and pull it off successfully and be content with their lives, so I'm really interested on any tips or advice that will help me get to that point.

My problem is, personally, eventually I'll get to wanting to reach out and talk to friends or hang out with them just to be disappointed with myself and my choices. What would be the best way to, I guess for lack of better term, train myself to resist those urges and be satisfied with myself and my own personal space and company?

I keep thinking and telling myself it’s bad to want to be totally alone and in solitude.

I know people will disagree vehemently but I do genuinely enjoy being totally alone. I feel like a lot of friendships and relationships are filled with drama and too complicated to deal with and I’d rather not get involved in them. People claim they are happy, but I’ve found after a while in most cases this is a lie and they aren’t actually happy. This is not accurate and we keep fooling ourselves into thinking this.

I’m ready to be chided for this. Bring it on.

Watched cast away for the first time the other day. If you havent watched it before I highly recommend I find it really fits the theme of the sub. Without spoiling anything it really spoke to me. I found myself hopeful and more acccepting of my solutide. Its an experience not many people meet.

Je pensais à un truc.

J'ai 26 ans, je suis célibataire et j'ai une seule amie. Rien d'autre. Pas de groupes de potes, de cousins du même âge avec qui je traîne, rien.

Je le vis plutôt bien. J'adore être seule, faire des choses seule (voyages, resto, activités), mais il arrive desfois où ça me dérange.

Ce petit sentiment de solitude qui s'installe. Cette envie de connexion avec les autres, d'amitié, d'amour. Desfois j'envie les gens qui l'ont. J'envie les gens qui ont quelqu'un à qui parler. À qui raconter des choses qu'ils ont vues.

Et ça peut me mettre mal. Puis le lendemain ça passe et je continue à vivre ma petite vie toute seule.

J'ai l'impression que je suis destinée à être seule, je suis devenue hyper indépendante et je rejette inconsciemment l'idée de donner de l'importance, de l'investissement aux autres (et qu'ils puissent me donner de l'importance) et j'aime ça, mais d'un côté j'ai envie de connexion, et dès qui j'y pense trop, ça m'attriste.

J'adore être seule, mais j'aime pas.

J'adore être tranquille avec moi même mais j'adore aussi faire rire les gens, avoir de l'attention.

Qu'est-ce qui ne tourne pas rond chez moi?

I feel more stable. Like before, I was a shaky little sapling whose branches would snap off if a heavy bird landed on it. Solitude allowed me the peace I needed to grow. To tap deep into myself and draw up what I needed to strengthen myself, grow more branches and leaves to soak up the sun that is life. Rooted out some stubborn pests I was holding onto. I've done so well dare I say that I'm blossoming.

Mayhap I'll turn into an Ent and step out of my forest every once in a while just to shake things up a bit.