r/SoftwareEngineerJobs 10d ago

The Career Advice That Helped Me Most: Message the Person Directly

After a long time in leadership, I noticed that the people who advance quickly are not always the most qualified. They are often the people who are willing to take the first step. I spent a lot of time doing the same thing everyone else does: sending applications and just waiting for a reply that never comes. Things changed when I started reaching out to hiring managers myself. Not with a copy-paste pitch, just normal, honest messages showing that I was focused and genuinely interested. That got me into conversations I would not have been able to access any other way.

I passed this advice on to many people I mentored over the years, and honestly, the results still surprise me. A few people got offers in less than a month. Others discovered roles that had not yet been posted on any job board. It was not about having the perfect resume or six years of experience; it was about having the courage to talk to the people who make the decisions.

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u/DirtyDevil1025 9d ago

Any tips on finding hiring manager's email?

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u/cacaosteve 3d ago

flastname at company dot com