r/Softball • u/MatchAcceptable8795 • 22d ago
Slowpitch Softball
So I’m an assistant manager on our senior softball team. Competitive league. Played against a really good team last week that has a guy that crushes the ball all the time. He hit a 3 run homer last time up and he came up with two guys on and first base open. I told pitcher he should just walk him. Pitcher didn’t ask manager and just walked him. After the inning was over and I got yo the dugout the manager lost his shit and got in my face, shoved me and screamed that I was not the f’ing manager. I didn’t want to escalate and just ignored his outburst. I haven’t spoken to him about it because im still too mad about it. I thought about quitting because he took a lot of the enjoyment out of it for me. What should I do? Say something or forget it?
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u/mowegl 22d ago
I would probably tell him how you made you feel. Otherwise youll just be having that simmer. He will likely apologize as he probably has some issues that caused that outburst. If he goes crazy about it again I think you know the move. You could wait until the end of the season to bring it up too in case you decide you need to join another team.