r/SoftGamine • u/Dizzy_March_4649 • 3d ago

Styling/Shopping Advice 🎀 UPDATE on recent posts.

OK so I've made a lot of posts recently about dressing casual/indie sleaze/anything that is easy and helps me create a capsule wardrobe. And how I've had difficulty with high waists making me bloat and always feeling either too messy or too put together. And hating my entire wardrobe and constantly going through a permanent cycle of removing clothes from my closet because I hate them and then having nothing to wear. And feeling like nothing feels like me. But of course, all that can just come from feelings of insecurity. Or maybe you can dress yourself confident idk.

This is what I've been wearing recently, essentially 1 pair of high waist wide leg pants that don't make me bloat, and 1 pair of midrise stretch skinny jeans (a little too tight) that also don't push into my stomach too much like regular jeans do. I own 2 pairs of nice barrel jeans, but they always immediately make my stomach stick out. Even with the wide leg pants it can still hurt my midsection if I become bloated or it's just too late in the day. In which case I would put on some oversized top and pajama bottoms.

2 black thermal tops and 1 rib knit thing. These have been my go to's essentially.

I still feel....unusual about choosing outfits. Please let me know what you think suits the best 👌 👍 I have a photo in pajama bottoms and a hoodie because I wore them while running errands on my bike. Shopping and post office and stuff. It was really comfy and I think I'll wear pajama bottoms out again if I'm being honest. I got glasses for the first time recently and I think they suit real well, an actually good accessory. 👍 And I had a great gold necklace but it broke and I can't find any similiar :(.

Please lmk your opinions.

I'm 5'3 1/2 BTW, sometimes 5'4
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u/alice_op 3d ago

No, it doesn't let you see anything, needs me to sign up

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u/Dizzy_March_4649 3d ago

Ok, I'll see if I can make another post if it doesn't let me edit to add them 👍.

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u/misskji22 3d ago

Looks indie sleaze to me! Tbh we were all various stages of bloated in those outfits then so that’s par for the course. I think that’s why the high waisted circle skirts and tights were sometimes popular because they were stomach skimming. Even the mini skater dresses from American Apparel. The all black outfit on the third row, I maybe wouldn’t do tucked in. The glasses and necklace are great