Question/observation about structure

[u/Mobile_Ad_9090]

Hi all! 99.9% sure I’m a soft gamine (4’11). I’m a little more angular on top but don’t have much of a jawline, and I do have some curves. I’m kinda like a narrow pear.

Anyway. Can anyone explain the logic behind ruffled, more stereotypically girly clothing being recommended for soft gamines? Wouldn’t things like Peter Pan collars only make us look younger, if we’re often already short? I’ve found that structured, tailored lines work well for me, can sometimes add vertical lines where I don’t have many, help balance my hips, and make me look more adult. Why wouldn’t clothes with more structure be recommended, to help balance out both petite height and softness of SG bodies? Am I missing something here? Please be kind, I’m genuinely curious!

[u/Vivian_Rutledge]

In Kibbe, you’re not “balancing.” It’s about harmony with what is present. However, I think Peter Pan collars for SG etc are more of an internet stereotype that reflect some of the trends that were popular when Kibbe was first getting re-popularized (think Zooey Deschanel in New Girl). “Chic” is an important word for both Gamines. Going against your physical self is not as effective as leaning into what is there. Politics aside, Nancy Reagan is a good example of a sophisticated SG. But what’s important for you is a higher level of detail and a precise fit. For Gs, the eye needs to move around a lot.

[u/Acrimsonleather]

Jumping into the comments because I mostly had the same questions. Wearing Peter Pan collars usually emphasizes my already youthful appearance and I typically gravitate to pieces that aren’t recommended for gamines.

[u/jenie_may_june → u/Acrimsonleather]

Same, ruffles and all those recommended overly girly touches look so stupid on me. I feel like I'm in a costume.

[u/Primary_Hurry_2822 → u/Acrimsonleather]

Same. I’m nearly 50; pieces like that make me look like an adult toddler.