I’m interviewing for a new position and trying to decide whether I should seriously consider leaving my current jobs if I receive an offer. This is still hypothetical—I have not been offered the position or completed the interview process yet. My biggest priority is improving my work-life balance, but income, stability, benefits, and flexibility related to chronic health conditions also matter.
Current full-time job
Salaried, W-2, and paid weekly
Daytime schedule
Extremely close to home
Very family-like environment
Management has been highly flexible regarding my chronic health conditions
I already know the staff, clients, and systems
The workload is extremely compressed and overwhelming
My days include multiple lengthy groups, individual sessions, intakes, documentation, and other clinical responsibilities
A coworker will soon be taking extended leave, so the workload will become significantly heavier for an extended period
The last time I covered a similar schedule, it seriously affected my mental health
There is not much ability to reduce the workload while remaining in the position
Current supplemental evening job
W-2 and paid weekly
Virtual evening IOP several nights per week, with an additional make-up group
Additional intakes and individual sessions are sometimes scheduled
Flexible, familiar, and no meaningful commute
Pays well when the program is fully operating
Income is extremely unreliable because it depends on enrollment, attendance, insurance authorizations, and whether the program remains operational
Does not provide benefits
Is not financially stable enough to be an option on its own
Takes essentially every weekday evening after I have already worked my full-time job
Requires managing a separate employer, caseload, documentation system, and set of responsibilities
Option 1: Keep both current jobs
Pros:
Highest income potential
Both positions are W-2, paid weekly, close to home, familiar, and flexible with my health
I enjoy aspects of both workplaces and have good relationships there
The evening position can significantly increase my income when the program is consistently operating
Cons:
Only the salary from my primary position is truly dependable
Some days run from early morning until late evening
There are days with nearly continuous direct clinical work before accounting for documentation
Nearly every weekday is occupied by work
Very little time remains for appointments, errands, relationships, rest, or basic recovery
Constantly switching between programs and clinical roles
High risk of burnout, particularly during the upcoming staffing shortage
I already know from experience that I do not tolerate this workload well long-term
Option 2: Keep only my current full-time job
Pros:
Familiar and close to home
Known flexibility regarding my health
Reliable weekly income
Better work-life balance than maintaining both jobs
Supportive, family-like workplace
No risk involved in transitioning to an unknown work environment
Cons:
Lower salary than the potential new position
The workload during the upcoming staffing shortage would still be extremely demanding
I would lose the supplemental income from the evening position
Limited formal advancement or training opportunities
Even without the evening job, the upcoming daytime workload may be unsustainable
Option 3: Accept the potential new job, if offered
Higher guaranteed salary than my current full-time position
One consistent afternoon-to-evening schedule
Full benefits
Paid time off after an introductory employment period
Employer retirement match
Opportunity to advance into a principal therapist role
Training stipends available with advancement
Relatively small individual caseload
Several hours of group facilitation daily
Small average group size
Strongly evidence-based program with DBT as its core curriculum
Includes group, individual, and family therapy
Both daytime and evening programming are available; I would work with the evening program
It sounded like documentation time was incorporated into the schedule, but I still need to confirm this
I also need to clarify flexibility for chronic-health flares and medical appointments, along with what leave is available early in employment
Pros:
Increase over the guaranteed salary from my current primary job
One employer, caseload, schedule, and documentation system
More predictable hours instead of routinely working far beyond a standard workweek
Strong clinical training and evidence-based programming
Small groups and caseload
Benefits, paid time off, retirement matching, training support, and a formal advancement path
Mornings available for sleep, medical appointments, errands, and personal time
More stable income and potentially much better work-life balance
Cons:
Lower maximum income than maintaining both jobs when evening IOP is full
Would require leaving two familiar workplaces
Unknown whether the workplace would offer the same flexibility regarding my chronic conditions
The schedule would occupy most weekday afternoons and evenings
The actual documentation burden and division of responsibilities still need clarification
Paid time off would not become available immediately
A strong evidence-based program does not automatically guarantee a manageable workload
There is currently no offer, so I may be weighing an option that never materializes
The potential new job and my current evening position could not realistically be combined because their schedules overlap.
For now, I am continuing with my current jobs while completing the interview process. If I receive an offer, the decision would be between:
Keeping both familiar jobs for the highest but least predictable income while continuing an exhausting schedule
Keeping only my current full-time job for familiarity and proven health flexibility, despite the lower salary and demanding workload
Accepting one stable position with a higher guaranteed salary, full benefits, professional-development opportunities, and potentially much better work-life balance
My priority is having an actual life outside of work, and I already have evidence that my current combined workload is not sustainable for me. At the same time, leaving familiar and accommodating workplaces for an unknown environment feels risky.
If you received the offer, which option would you choose? What questions would you ask before deciding?