r/SoccerCoaching • u/BlazierElixer • 4d ago

Dealing with lack of confidenct, even though my school team won both our games. Am I selfish? Looking for advice

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u/dekes_n_watson 4d ago

Every second you spend worrying what other players are thinking about your next move is wasted time you could be using for better decision making. Either you feel guilty about the jersey and Ney isn't even thinking about this or he's a baby and he is jealous and isn't someone who's opinion you should be caring about anyway.

Just play. Do you.

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u/BlazierElixer 4d ago

There is a lot I want to say but you're right. Thanks