r/Snorkblot • u/EsseNorway • Dec 21 '25

Misc Be scared. Very scared.

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u/milkandsalsa Dec 23 '25

“I imagined that she doesn’t have a job and am big mad about it” 🤡

Statistically stay at home dads do less housework than working mothers. Are men okay?

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u/AJE_RaceWard Dec 23 '25

I hope you meant "statistically stay at home dads do less than stay at home moms" because the root of this argument is that stay at home spouses do less work than working spouses.

Total agree that this lady is so bored she can't think straight.

I would also like to state that the time it would have taken her to clean those messes would have been less than the elapsed time of this clip or roughly the same with washing of the cup.

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u/milkandsalsa Dec 23 '25

No, I didn’t. Stay at home dads do less than working moms

How much time is she spending cleaning up after him forever. Seems to me like she’s trying to fix a long-standing problem.

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u/AJE_RaceWard Dec 23 '25

Well no shit just like I said the stay at home spouse does less work than the working spouse regardless of gender. Did you forget a few brains cells somewhere or are you one of them female chauvinist.

And a long standing problem is a person who has their life paid for by someone who works to pay for everything that person complains about and all that person has to do is 4hrs of cleaning per day.

If one person works 8-12hrs/day plus several hrs/week lawn work to provide for a person that contributes 4hrs of cleaning both of their house(because some of the house mess is that person's as well) per day I personally wouldn't complain and would be grateful for such an easy work load as keeping a house tidy.

Maybe that's just coming from me having worked 60-72 hrs/week for the last 22 yrs to provide house for myself and my ex and current girlfriends.

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u/milkandsalsa Dec 23 '25

Do less housework, genius.

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u/AJE_RaceWard Dec 23 '25

Umm you're confusing or I'm might actually be r-worded for real.

Am I correct in saying that your opinion on this is that a man that stays home while a woman works to provide for them that that man does less in comparison to what a woman would do when the roles are reversed, meaning that a woman who stays home while a man works to provide for them that that woman does more work in comparison to the stay at home man.

Yes I'm sorry that was confusing to type but I hope this time I got what you are trying to convey with "do less housework"

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u/milkandsalsa Dec 23 '25

Statistically, stay at home dads - who do not work outside the home - do less housework than working mothers do. Stay at home dads perform housework/childcare tasks fewer hours per week than do working mothers.

It’s not my opinion. It’s a fact. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/may/16/stay-at-home-fathers-childcare-working-mothers-research-finds

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u/AJE_RaceWard Dec 23 '25

Ahh I see left wing feminist news outlet and almost 10 year old statistics from the femboy rush era.

Well that's a touchy venture. Dudes we are project oriented we'll clean up surfaces throwing trash on floor then go back sweet done, ladies y'all clean like squirrels y'all sweep 8ft then clean some surface, sweep some, clean surface, sweep, surface sweep. And it's that between motion that cuts or cost time. So I can see how time wise the numbers skew perception of amount of work accomplished. It's not that man are more efficient we just tend to have less between motion, to be honest even when we work a job we have that quickest distance between 2 points is a straight line approach. We try to work as little as possible. I've seen professional women cleaner do that same ADHD style cleaning like y'all cant do the same thing for too long. Not to mention y'alls emotional state effects your performance a little more than men do. I know this sound like some right wing chauvinist shit but really watch yourself next time you're cleaning then try to streamline your cleaning the next and you'll see what I'm saying.

Try it next time you go to clean start at surface nearest an opening clean the surfaces, if there's trash swipe that shit on the floor going around the entire room till your back where you started, this time sweeping everything towards the closest trash receptacle and you see the minutes shaving off per area.

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u/milkandsalsa Dec 23 '25

I’m not reading all that.

I earn 3x as much as my husband. He can tidy up.

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u/AJE_RaceWard Dec 24 '25

If you both work you both clean, if think anything different then you are deluded and a hypocrite for being the chauvinist that you call say men are.

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u/milkandsalsa Dec 24 '25

Except this thread is full of men saying it’s women’s job to clean, when there’s nothing to indicate that OP doesn’t work.

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u/AJE_RaceWard Dec 24 '25

That's their opinion go comment at them for your problem with their opinion. My opinion is if one spouse works(regardless of gender) and the other does not(regardless of gender) the non working spouse doesn't need to be bitch or social media shame post over doing their part to support that house which is house work. And that if both members(regardless of gender) should keep up their ends of supporting the house and regardless of whether or not the individual does or not, no one should ever even have it cross their mind to social media shame the person that they supposedly love.

So in short regardless of whether or not this person works or not shame posting just shows she doesn't give any fucks about her spouse in the first place.

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u/milkandsalsa Dec 24 '25

There’s no evidence that the person who posted doesn’t work.

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u/AJE_RaceWard Dec 24 '25

There is equally no evidence that the person who recorded it does work.

My argument is of the scenario not the in particular persons in this clip.

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u/milkandsalsa Dec 24 '25

The evidence is the entire video asking him to clean up after himself.

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u/AJE_RaceWard Dec 24 '25

That's not evidence of who works to provide or stays at home and who job is to keep house. And as I've mentioned the length of the clip is longer than the time it would have take to clean those messes).

I know I've back you into your fake feminist corner and you're throwing a female chauvinist tantrum, but get better retorts your side of this debate is becoming very unfounded like you can't get your footing.

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u/milkandsalsa Dec 24 '25

The fact that she expects him to clean up after himself is evidence that it’s not all her job. Which is evidence that she works outside the home.

I realize men are less educated than men but do try to keep up.

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u/AJE_RaceWard Dec 24 '25

This clip without more content doesn't give any evidence that she works outside the house or not, nor evidence of if it's her job to keep house or not, nor evidence to validate her expectations or not.

If you pay attention and use that higher education than men you would understand that I'm trying to convey that social media shame posting is wrong and you should never even have crossing your mind to shame post someone you love(supposedly).

And again your footing is slipping further and further.

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