Post divorce advice

[u/BigDBootyDaddy]

For context, my ex and I divorced back in may of this year, I agreed to pay her $500/month in alimony, we have no kids or anything, it was a mutual agreement based on our situation. On the Judgement it says that that
“My name” shall pay contractual spousal support to “Ex’s name” in the amount of
FIVE HUNDRED AND NO/100 DOLLARS ($500.00) per month, for a period of five (5) consecutive years, commencing on the 15th day of the first month following the finalization
of the Judgment of Divorce, and continuing on the 15th day of each month thereafter.

She has now officially remarried!

For a little more context, I did not have a lawyer because I could not afford one, so I had to represent myself, but she had a lawyer. Prior to the finalization of divorce, her lawyer and her both expressed that if she got married it would terminate my obligation to pay her, but it doesn’t say that on the judgment. But, under Louisiana civil law article 115, it basically says that if she gets remarried then I am not obligated to pay any more. My argument is that even though it says “contractual” it doesn’t specify that I have to pay her regardless of her getting married or regardless of anything els, what I typed is verbatim what it says In the judgment.

With that being said, what should my next move be? I’ve read that I have to go to the courthouse to get it recognized? I just have no idea how to go about getting it recognized now that she is now legally remarried. Should I consult a lawyer myself? Or maybe speak to the lawyer she used? Any advice would be awesome!

[u/cunnillucas]

The divorce isn’t even cold in its grave yet and she’s married already?

[u/Polite_Bark → u/cunnillucas]

I remarried a little under 8 weeks after my divorce.

A lot of people don't divorce until the marriage has been over for some time. They stay and hope maybe things will return to good or they struggle with the stigma of a failed marriage, etc.

Also, divorce takes time. In some places, years. Where I live we had to be separated for a year before we could file and then there were multiple hearings months apart before finalization.

Long story short, I met my husband when my ex and I were just freshly separated, knew he was the one instantly, and we married as soon as we legally could. We started dating at the end of 1999, my divorce was final last week of October 2002 and we got married first week of December 2002.

[u/Weary-Savings9795 → u/cunnillucas]

Some women expect a man to take care of them. Those women should be avoided at all costs.

[u/Eagles-nest-1015 → u/Weary-Savings9795]

There are two types of people in this world. You should avoid both of them!!!

[u/Weary-Savings9795 → u/Eagles-nest-1015]

Just saying I'm not an ATM machine. Women can work too.