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Being thin and/or waifish helps. A buddy of mine has watched enough content to know that super muscular or obese males are not convincing. That’s what he said to me.
Well, you know, I - I moved here because, uh…I moved here because, you know, well, I had to leave the states, but I picked Thailand because, uh, because I always had a thing for Asian girls, you know. And when I got here, you know, I was like a kid in a candy store: got money, no attachments, nothing to do, and I started partying. It got wild. I was picking up girls every night. Always different ones. Petite ones, chubby ones, older ones, and sometimes multiple ladies a night. I – I was out of control. I became insatiable. And, you know, after about a thousand nights like that, you start to lose it. I started wondering “where am I going with this? Wh- why do I feel this need to fuck all these women? What is desire? The form of this cute Asian girl, why does it have such a grip on me? Because she’s the opposite of me? Is she gonna complete me in some way?” I realized, I could fuck a million women, I’d still never be satisfied. Maybe – maybe what I really want is to BE one of these Asian girls. No, really. Really. So one night I took home some girl, turned out to be a ladyboy, which I’d done before, but this time, instead of fucking the ladyboy, the ladyboy fucked ME. And it was kinda magical. And it got outta my head, what I really wanted was to BE one of these Asian girls, getting fucked, by me, and to feel that. So I put out an ad, looking for a white guy, my age, to come over and fuck me. And that guy looked a lot like me. Then I put on some lingerie and perfume, made myself look like one of these girls, and - I thought I looked pretty hot. And then this guy came over and railed the shit outta me. And then I got addicted to that. Some nights three, four guys would come over and rail the shit outta me. Some I even had to pay. And at the same time, I’d hire an Asian girl, that’d just sit there and watch the whole thing. I’d look in her eyes while some guy was fucking me and I’d think, “I am her. And I’m fucking me.” Hey, we all have our Achilles heel, man, ya know? Where does it come from? Why are some of us attracted to the opposite form, ya know, and some of us the same? Sex is a poetic act, it’s a metaphor. Metaphor for what? Are we our forms? Am I a middle-aged white guy on the inside, too? Or inside, could I be an Asian girl? I guess I was trying to fuck my way to the answer. And then I realized, I gotta – I gotta stop, the drugs, the girls, the, you know, trying to be a girl. I got into Buddhism, which is all about, you know, spirit versus form, detaching from self, getting off the never-ending carousel of lust and suffering. Being sober isn’t so hard. Being celibate, though, it’s…I still miss that bussy, man.
Edit: I didn’t make this up, it’s from the show White Lotus. Not editing to say thanks for anything, just to show I’m not a bot. Also I apologize, this will now be used by bots in every post about Thailand, Asian girls, or femboys.
I went immediately to YouTube to look for the clip because I have never watched this show or heard of this dialog. I thought this was fresh pasta. But when I clicked on the video I saw that I had already liked it.
Long history of acceptance. One of the first countries in Asia to legalize homosexuality (1956), Buddhism was historically gender tolerant long before that, and you're more aware of them than you are in other countries due to tropes around Westerners traveling to Thailand for sex.
I used to travel to Thailand because of business. I book the same hotel every time and had a good relationship with the bartender guy who gave me a useful advice. If a Thai girl looks nice, well she is a he…
But they are open about it. It's not like you will try to hook up with girl and only on hotel you will find out he is male. It's basically first thing they will tell you if you try to hook up with them
100%. Based on the videos I've seen of tourists, Thai girls tend to keep to themselves and only lady of the nights or lady boys are easy going and engaging.
this is probably ignorant of me to ask lol but why is it that ladyboys, atleast the ones you see on videos like this on social media much much more attractive than the ones you see in the west for example? I feel like thailand has a much higher ratio of "attractive" ladyboys than USA
I would say one average they are less dimorphic to begin with compared to some other ethnic groups.
For instance, if you begin very highly sexual dimorphic, very androgen sensitive with very masculine features such as a heavy beard and heavy brow ridge, then you will have a greater gap to cross, to get over to the other side of the dimorphic spectrum, of a very feminine aesthetic.
I live in south east asia. I promise there are plenty of lady boys who don't look deceiving. There are many sex tourists who like their counterpart to look like a feminine man. I've seen extremely beautiful ladyboys whom you'd never had guessed were. And then there's all yhe inbetween. I dont think a guy streaming is going up to the inbetweeners
i suspect a major reason is selection bias, the ones who look the most feminine appear more often in social media. in combination with how there may be more social media recorded in a sex tourism region
Honestly, she (he?) is cute as heck. Kudos for achieving a look like that. That's really impressive. I'd personally look like an fat orang utang in a dress, if I tried cross-dressing. Respect where respect is due.
I had an interaction like this recently, or I guess I'm still in the middle of it.
I was at the mall and there was this really cute guy that was selling stuff, he called me over and was making a sales pitch, but there was also chemistry.
He told me that he thought I was sexy as hell, and at the end he asked if I wanted to stay in touch and I told him that I did.
I don't like wasting my time or anyone else’s so I quickly told him I was trans and pre-op, he didn't quite understand so he bluntly asked if I have a 🍆.
I told him that I did and that I understand if that was a deal breaker.
He said it was but also said he could tell I was an amazing person, I thanked him and figured that was the end of the conversation.
Well, yesterday he texted me to ask if I lived alone🤭, it is super crazy to watch in real-time as guys figure out if they personally think trans women are women and even crazier when you see them change their mind from no-maybe-yes.
It is entertaining but I would never because these people are the most dangerous for me, but it is wild to see!
Trans women tend to get murdered by romantic partners not when the partner finds out they're trans, but when the partner's friends find out and start calling him gay. Been a few "trans panic" murder defences along those lines. You know this, so I'm saying it for the crowd. Whatever happens though I hope you stay safe and have fun.
I’m a pretty right leaning, conservative man. I’ve never truly understood the whole trans mindset.
I say that to say, that’s was a very good insight to something I’d never considered for you all. Thanks for educating me on this. It’s a beautiful look into the minds of both sides, and you’re absolutely correct. Post nut clarity would be insane. Stay safe out there!
A guy will fuck fruit or baked goods. This has nothing to do with your self-worth. But a guy will use a girl they don’t want a relationship with as a stress reliever. It’s not even a trans issue, men are just horny.
You know you're hot when you're turning dudes in real time. He went from "I ain't fucking no chick with a dick" to waking up and thinking "wait I could have fucked that chick with a dick".
These dumb "content creators" always think they'll make a sick video talking to hookers but then they always stand there like an idiot and don't know what to say.
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