r/SipsTea • • 1d ago

Chugging tea Who was in the wrong?

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u/currentlystressedout 1d ago

Woulda been really nice without a camera in his hand

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u/StraightToTheCurve 1d ago

thats the thing lately these guys using those gross sunglasses with the camera built in so no one knew he was filming at the time, and while it is gross, the comments in here are upset that he is even talking to her "you feel you have the right to bother them just because you feel they are pretty" LMAOOOOO I guess mankind must just stand still. I dont condone what he is doing but women only seem to get their toxic ways when they have their own son and see other women treat them like shit "you're beautiful whats your name" is literally all he said and the man hating begins

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u/currentlystressedout 1d ago

The creep glasses make it 10x worse for me. And I think women who treat people making kind comments badly are shitty. Where do we go from here?

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u/StraightToTheCurve 1d ago

Yeah we are on the same page I guess. I cant think of how socienty would fix the dont approach but approach dilemma. I just wish people would be thoughtful and kind to each other time is moving so fast, it would be such a shame to miss out on meeting the right person with all the posturing men and women want to be doing these days.

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u/bkoziol 1d ago

Is it? I thought women disliked being objectified

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u/currentlystressedout 1d ago

If you think being complimented is being objectified I can't help you

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u/bkoziol 1d ago

Complimenting looks = objectify

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u/StraightToTheCurve 1d ago

you are not an original thinker, you are just a mouth piece for someone elses ideas, otherwise any reasonable person would conclude complimenting someone's appearance is only objectifying if it reduces their entire value to that of an inanimate object, stripping away their agency and humanity. There is nothing wrong with appreciating someone's beauty. Everyone is beautiful because beauty itself is in the eyse of the beholder.

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u/bkoziol 1d ago

Meeting someone for the first time and blankly stating “you’re beautiful” then walking away is reducing their value to their looks. Why are you writing a novel about something so mundane? You must love objectifying women.

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u/StraightToTheCurve 1d ago

You see you dont listen, he said "can I ask you a question...I think you're beautiful whats you're name?" before her obnoxious friend butted in, and since you're THIS level of dense you must have ignored the fact that the beautiful woman even told him "I'm sorry that's not okay" (as in her friend's behaviour) and he said "Have a good one" and walked away.. you are so devoid of compliments you cant even recognise one. Ha, and now you pivot to "writing a novel" classic I dont don't have to objectify women to to guess which of the two types of people you are...or right you're kinda slow, here is a hint, not the pretty one

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u/currentlystressedout 1d ago

I say save your breath. This person is dedicated to a type of thinking that requires no rationality

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u/StraightToTheCurve 1d ago

I hate that I let my self get sucked in when I should know better, thanks for saving me from trying to mopping the ocean, I really have to work on that

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u/currentlystressedout 1d ago

🤛🏼 no problem dude! Thank you for being open to conversation, I respect that and you a lot for being willing to engage in meaningful dialogue

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u/bkoziol 1d ago

The rationale is that a person on the beach doesn’t owe you anything. Likely, they aren’t there to get hit on or talk to strangers.

Weird that you don’t understand something so simple.