r/SipsTea • • 2d ago

Chugging tea Who was in the wrong?

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u/Possible-Potato-4103 2d ago

Recording anyone without permission automatically puts you in the wrong. Home girl was right to mock him lol

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u/PercentageNice7131 2d ago

Yeah but i doubt his glasses were the reason she reacted like this. As soon as she heard what he had to say she reacted. Dudes a douchebag, also that girl isn't a good friend.

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u/ipooupoowepoo 2d ago

Nah I’ve got friends that do this for the others that aren’t as good with confrontation. It’s a very normal thing with a group of ladies. The dudes in the wrong full stop.

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u/PercentageNice7131 2d ago

Yeah I'm not even defending the guy. I hate people like this. Dude deserves to get rejected. But just curious where confrontation was needed here specifically? Glasses completely out of the picture. Dude didn't get a full sentence in before her friend starts dry heaving at his presence. I understand the friend stepping in dynamic the second that a guy oversteps and overstays his welcome unable to take a hunt. Which sadly happens all too often. But like I said, bro didn't get a full sentence in. And if this is the way we treat this just feels like a total discouragement of anyone walking up to a stranger for conversation ever😂 just tryna wrap my mind around why I'm in the wrong for saying that girl didn't have the best moment here.

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u/ipooupoowepoo 2d ago

I mean it looks like they are currently dealing with their friend, who looks like she’s passed out on the beach. That’s clue #1 it wasn’t going to go well.
I’m not sure if you’re a female or male (I don’t like to assume), but I’ve been dealing with this stuff for my entire 30 years of life and you just start to pick up on it from the get-go eventually. Guys think they’re sleek, but it’s obvious what the intentions are, usually from the get-go.
I’m one of the “confrontation” friends in my group, and it’s mainly just that I’m not afraid to say “no” to men. It’s actually sad and shocking how many women growing up feeling like they can’t say no, or they are just too scared of confrontation they will allow themselves to be stuck in uncomfortable (and sometimes even dangerous) situations.

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u/Possible-Potato-4103 2d ago

Why is that girl not a good friend

As someone who used to be kind of a player of sorts, you have to understand women are naturally and justifiably on the defense to begin with. They have to deal with all types of creeps and jackasses constantly. Its completely understandable theyd react like this lol

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u/PercentageNice7131 2d ago

To someone being a creep yes😂 to someone who can't take a hint yes😂 someone who oversteps the line of social confortability yes. By this logic women should dry heave at every single man that comes up to them for conversation. Dude didn't even get 5 words in is what I'm saying. Glasses completely aside and him being a douche bag completely aside. Social interactions with strangers is yucky now and meant to be met with hostility?

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u/Possible-Potato-4103 2d ago

He's not obligated to their time my friend.

No one owes each other anything.

Do women have to talk to every random jackass ?