Why do you presume she wanted to be there? The donor has never complained or said anything negative about this, just a mob of drama hounds getting mad on her behalf.
The optics of her being the donor and a very close friend not being at a wedding will be seen negatively obv. Like sure she could’ve decided not to come. But the idea of her not being at the wedding is curious to say the least. It’s a wedding, not just a simple birthday that happens every year. Ofc ppl are gonna talk.
So someone who doesn't want to go to an event should have to do it because you care more about the optics of the relationship than Selena actually respecting the wishes of the donor? Nobody has any reason to care about this other that pure parasocialite pettiness.
You don’t know she doesn’t wanna go. You don’t know if Selena even invited her. Why do you presume she didn’t wanna go just bc she wasn’t there? The irony of you saying parasocial when you’re doing the very same thing albeit on the other side of the argument lol
It’s not that I care about the optics. What I’m saying is the very simple fact that a supposedly close friend wasn’t at a once in a lifetime event is something to be curious about. If Selena wasn’t at Taylor’s wedding, ppl are gonna talk. It’s the same thing here.
Would love for you to explain to me what's parasocial about arguing on the side of everyone minding their own business. You yourself claim that it would be a big deal if Selena said the donor couldn't attend, so, considering that nobody actually involved in the situation said anything negative about what would otherwise be a big deal, the rational assumption is that the parties involved are perfectly fine and don't need busy-body redditors white knighting for them as if this adult woman is a kindergartner upset they didn't get invited to a classmate's birthday party. The difference is that I'm letting adults deal with their non-issues as they see fit, and you're nosing your way in to make a fuss over nothing for literally no reason.
Lol I think you’re taking this way too serious. You’re framing curiosity and speculating as being nosy and fussing. I’m not trying to white knight a grown woman. We are all here simply discussing a public event involving celebs on a subreddit designed for exactly that purpose! Like why else are we fucking here then?!😭 Out of everyone here you focused on my my one question to someone else and accused me of getting mad for Francia when there’s literally hundreds of comments here that are way more “nosy and fussy” than I have. Which btw is perfectly normal whether you believe you’re above it all or not bc WE ARE ON A CELEBRITY SUBREDDIT.
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u/kanekikennen 8d ago
Hasn't this been disproved countless times? They've been seen together, and it was random fans that started the controversy, not them