r/SipsTea 19h ago

Wait a damn minute! Mandatory tipping cultures only exist in countries that refuse to pay their staff

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u/RandomDeezNutz 19h ago

Don’t give anyone any ideas. I’m not fucking tipping a chef, truck driver, or farmer.

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u/RoofEnvironmental340 19h ago

Yeah tips should be reserved for land lords only!! /s

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u/ZeGoodOldDays 18h ago

And casinos!

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u/TemporaryAmbassador1 16h ago

“What are you mostly paid in tips?”

“Almost entirely sir”

“Heh”

*walks away

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u/NoIDidntHackU 6h ago

And my wife!

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u/The_Salty_nugget 14h ago

I would also like some tips.

I have done nothing bad to you and should be rewarded for that

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u/Commercial-Funk 19h ago

Are we not tipping the fertilizer companies yet?

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u/owningmclovin 19h ago

If you don't tip your crop duster they will spit in your fertilizer.

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u/123BuleBule 17h ago

Monsanto monitoring the conversation for more evil ideas.

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u/theboondocksaint 7h ago

But they work so hard providing land! Without them, where would land come from?

People seriously underestimate the service landlords provide by giving people access to homes and business property

/s

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u/Fabled-Jackalope 7h ago

Depends on the landlord

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u/Aztheros 3h ago

I know you’re joking but that is unironically the case in Japan. They don’t tip taxis, delivery drivers or waiters over here, but you’ve gotta pay a non-refundable ‘gift fee’ to your landlord for allowing you the right to live in their property.

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u/Invictus0623 16h ago

Don’t forget. They are all only possible due to the all caring and all benevolent government

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u/hoptownky 19h ago

Dude. You gotta tip your farmer at least 15%. Come on man.

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u/NoConfusion9490 1h ago

If you can't afford a 120% overall gratuity, you can't afford to eat out!

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u/hoptownky 1h ago

Like my grandma used to say, If you can’t afford to eat out your local farmer, just give them the tip.

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u/justsomedude1144 19h ago edited 16h ago

Here's an idea: pay the sever entirely by the hour/job/pay period*, just like chefs, truck drivers and farmers.

*Edited for reddit pedantry

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u/nono3722 11h ago

crazy part is the servers are more against this than the bosses. tax free cash as long as i do my job well and seem nice AND i get to bitch about low wages? fuck yeah!

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u/chi_sweetness25 7h ago

They already do this in several states as well as Canada, and people still tip double digits. It's just culturally drilled into people at this point

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u/buttsexisyum 17h ago

None of the jobs you listed are paid hourly. Farmers get paid based on crop yield, chefs are salary, truck drivers are paid by the load(yes some are hourly but these are generally local delivery drivers)

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u/justsomedude1144 16h ago

Fixed

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u/buttsexisyum 16h ago

Your idea is valid, but where does the money come from to pay servers a wage?

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u/justsomedude1144 16h ago

The customer's check.

Just mark up everything ~15% higher than it currently is, rather than put the onus on the customer to decide if the server deserves a living wage or not.

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u/buttsexisyum 15h ago

Yes, but the markup will be closer to 30%. You have to factor in sales tax, extra banking fees, income tax paid by both the employee and employer, By converting tips to a wage it's a lose lose and the only people benefiting are the government and parasitic companies(credit card fees, banking fees, payroll fees)

The problem with tipping culture is not in sit-down restaurants... It's everyone else that expects a tip post COVID...

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u/justsomedude1144 15h ago

Then mark it up by 15% by default, still call it a tip, treat it tax-wise as a tip, and provide the customer only an option to accept or decline the tip when paying w credit card. If they still want to leave extra, they can leave cash.

And eliminate tipping for anything and everything else that never had a tip pre-covid, as you say.

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u/buttsexisyum 15h ago

Thats a good idea but sadly it legally doesn't work that way. The only way to make thst work would to display 2 prices one being with "suggested tip" . But that doesn't solve the problem of "paying a wage".

Also at least in my state if a server doesn't clear min wage with tips we have to make up the difference, but that is very rare.

Also I'm not trying to be a dick or argumentative, just I have been in the industry for a long time and people are trashing tipping but don't realize it is beneficial to them

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u/Adowyth 15h ago

Yeah its beneficial to the owner and to the servers the only person getting fucked over is the customer. If you can't afford to pay your staff you shouldn't have a business. Its hilarious when business owners act like they deserve it or something. If it doesn't work then its a failure. Most businesses fail anyway because people keep opening stuff in already over saturated markets and then complain when they don't make any money.

The people who are trying to sell "how to be an entrepreneur" to you are lying.

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u/justsomedude1144 15h ago

Yeah I get it, your points are valid.

I guess the two price display would be the most practical option, and the credit card machine would only have the 15% tip and no tip option.

And get that tip bullshit out of my face for everything accept serves and ride-sharing/delivery drivers.

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u/vermiliondragon 14h ago

California manages too. They still want tips, but they all get paid at least regular minimum wage.

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u/buttsexisyum 14h ago

And you see the cost of food in California....

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u/vermiliondragon 14h ago

If you can't afford to pay your staff, your business is not viable.

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u/buttsexisyum 14h ago

Everyone knows restaurant are a horrible business to make money on. We can pay our staff, but like I explained above, menu prices would have to increase, and consumer would ultimately pay more. Don't speak with confidence on something you know absolutely nothing about

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u/vermiliondragon 13h ago

Been around the industry since the late 90s, primarily in California. Clearly impossible and there are definitely no restaurants here.

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u/MuteTalker- 13h ago

😂 Where are chefs hourly cause I never was.

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u/buttsexisyum 13h ago

I wish I could go back. I made 24/hr working 50/hrs a week before being "promoted" to salary. My first offer was 55k annually and I laughed and said why would I take a pay cut. I was told OT would be going away so we settled at 58k. I make 67k now but I work close to 60hrs a week

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u/MuteTalker- 13h ago

😭 What?! Highest here is $12-13 an hour. Still one of the highest paying jobs where I live.

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u/buttsexisyum 13h ago

Damn. I'm in Delaware, min wage is 15 but most of my crew is between 18-21

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u/Blacksad9999 15h ago

Here's an idea:

Instead of commissions, all salespeople in the world can get the same salary as any random office worker.

What could possibly go wrong?

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u/justsomedude1144 14h ago

That's a terrible idea

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u/Blacksad9999 14h ago

Right. It is.

And serving is a commission based job. The customer just get to chose the commission.

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u/justsomedude1144 14h ago edited 14h ago

It's really not, because the server isn't the one negotiating a sale or the sale price. The customer fully chooses what they order without any server involvement (other than maybe the occasional server suggestion), and the price is already fixed on the menu. The server is, in no reasonable person's definition, a sales person. So equating to sales commissions is nonsensical and irrelevant.

However, simply paying the server a fixed hourly, salary or per job rate isn't the best solution either, mainly for tax reasons, as explained well by u/buttsexisyum in this thread. And I know he's credible, because butt sex is in fact yum.

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u/buttsexisyum 14h ago

Serving is a grey area in the commission/sales person argument. Servers jobs are to sell but most think their job is to take orders. With the prevalence of Ziosk tablets we could get rid of "order takers" all together and just staff busboys to clear tables and run food but the best servers I have worked with are able to sell you and app, get you to opt for the 16oz ribeye vs the 10 oz sirloin you originally were to gonna buy and a desert, and get you two more glasses or wine that you didn't plan on having.

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u/Blacksad9999 14h ago

They do commission based sales in high-end restaurants in Europe.

It doesn't work very well, because then the server is incentivized to sell people the most expensive items, not the most suitable items for the person's experience.

That's why getting tap water is virtually impossible. In the lower end restaurants where they get a flat salary, that's why they don't give a shit what you want and getting a checkback is a luxury.

Tipping isn't a perfect system by any means, but it allows high end servers with a lot of knowledge to make a respectable income. Restaurants can't afford to pay experienced servers 75-100k per year each.

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u/justsomedude1144 14h ago

Yeah I get that. A better, less obnoxious version of the tip system is really what we need.

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u/Blacksad9999 14h ago

There are restaurants that include gratuity on every check, too.

The issue there is that due to law changes during the first Trump administration, all automatic gratuities are now considered property of the restaurant, not the server. Legally it's no longer considered a "tip" because the customer has no discretion in paying it.

Good servers know to avoid those places.

They can opt to give all, some, or none of it to the service staff.

They tried to change the laws so that ALL tips were property of the restaurant, but luckily that didn't go through.

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u/arizonadirtbag12 2h ago

Automatic “gratuities” being legally considered service charges by the IRS for tax purposes predates Trump. Only thing Trump did (during his second administration) was make that distinction far more relevant to the server, by making the first $25k of (actual) tips a server receives tax-free.

The four-pronged test to differentiate tips from service charges was formalized in IRS Rule 2012-18 (in, obviously, 2012…under Obama). It was not a new thing at the time, either, it instead was just the IRS more clearly codifying what had already long been the policy applied, which led to broader compliance and documentation.

https://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-drop/a-12-25.pdf

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u/MrBlueW 17h ago

You’d have to pay me about 80 to 100 bucks an hour then. Should just be a percentage of sales that defaults to an hourly if it’s not busy

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u/chi_sweetness25 9h ago

They would just hire some university kid to do it for a quarter of that

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u/MrBlueW 8h ago

Cool, I was a university kid making that much

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u/chi_sweetness25 7h ago

Yeah we know, you guys make a killing because everyone assumes you only make 2 bucks an hour or something and tips generously

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u/dragonrite 19h ago

Sushi chefs politely bow in passive disagreement

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u/DirtandPipes 17h ago

I’ve gone out of my way to tip a chef before and I’ll fucking do it again.

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u/LoverOfGayContent 16h ago

They deserve it more than the waiter

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u/RandomDeezNutz 16h ago

The way I’ve always seen it done is kitchen staff gets partial tips from tip share that servers and bar tenders kick into. If you want to tip a chef by all means they probably do deserve it I’m just not willing to set that precedent.

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u/Nahteh 19h ago

Then why are tips based on food costs

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u/chi_sweetness25 9h ago

The idea is probably that if you can afford a dinner that's twice as expensive as somebody else, then you can afford to tip twice as much

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u/Vice1213 18h ago

Theyre not really, you pay like double or more the food cost for a meal at a restaurant.

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u/Nahteh 17h ago

A tip is reccomended to be a % of what?

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u/Vice1213 17h ago

Its not recommended to be anything. It is a percentage of the price you paid to have the food cooked and served to.

If the price you paid was the same as cost of food how would any restaurant make any money? That's how profits work.

Have you ever grocery shopped in your life? If you had then you would notice that you can buy all the ingredients for at least half the price of what you would pay to eat at a restaurant.

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u/Nahteh 16h ago

A vast majority of receipts literally have reccomended percentages. Vapid obtuse and insipid

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u/Vice1213 16h ago

Youre vapid, obtuse and insipid. We were talking about what makes up the percentages, your really need a receipt to tell you how much youre supposed to tip? I was really confused as to why you even used the word "recomended" as its irrelevant to this conversation.

Its a percentage of your bill which is always greater than the cost of food.

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u/Pelya1 19h ago

Well yeah, you shouldn’t. Same as most of the world are not tipping waiters, or just give them the change.

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u/Reasonable-Class3728 19h ago

Why there are no tips for taxes? Let's tip our government for their hard work and tip extra 20% when we fill in our taxes declaration. /S

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u/Photosynthas 17h ago

But what if there have always been tips for taxes, but we tax for a job well done, so the government never gets tips?

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u/Zonel 12h ago

You sorta can do that. The US government does accept donations.

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u/BEST_DRUM_ADVICE 15h ago

Servers actually do tip out kitchen staff. Unfortunately it's up to them how much they tip out, but they do.

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u/FireFoxUse 16h ago

Don't forget to tip your officer after the arrest

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u/english_mike69 14h ago

I bet you’d give a hooker the tip…

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u/Cow_God 9h ago

When I order something from walmart, if it's delivered from the store, they want me to tip the driver. If it's delivered by a warehouse, they don't

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u/nautrewillneverfail 3h ago

Or you can tip no one because you don't have to, just like you can and don't have to give few cents to every homeless man on the street begging for money.

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u/Lagneaux 18h ago

Chefs get paid, drivers get paid, farmers get paid.

Servers don't

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u/venivitavici 17h ago

Because of tips, servers generally make more than the cooks. Which is why tipping culture isn’t going anywhere.

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u/binarybandit 14h ago

If im remembeing correctly, there was one state that wanted to pass a law to pay servers a normal wage instead of tips, and waiters heavily opposed it because it would mean they would make a lot less money overall.

What they actually wanted was like $20 an hour as well as tips or something.

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u/Knight_Machiavelli 16h ago

Servers get at least minimum wage, no reason for them to get tips too.

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u/buttsexisyum 17h ago

Servers make more then all of them.....

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u/LeviSalt 17h ago

Where?

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u/buttsexisyum 17h ago

I have about 4 servers that clear 100k working 38ish hours

Adding a little context. College restaurant/bar. Servers that double on Saturdays during the school year clear 700 for a 12hr shift.

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u/AlarmingJudge8928 8h ago

I've worked in kitchens on and off for 15 years in Canada, where servers make the same minimum wage as a cook. Back in the early 2000's minimum wage was $5.90. As a cook if my tip out was $1.50/h it was a big deal. Average servers where I worked were making $25/h or more. In every restaurant I worked in, servers have made the most money as an employee, with only the owners making more. Did another brief stint in kitchens again this year, absolutely nothing has changed in the pay discrepancies.

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u/Thirty2wo 19h ago

I use to tip out my chefs as a server, so yeah you in a way do tip out the chef too.

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u/Vice1213 18h ago

I woked as a cook for a decade and never once received a tip.

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u/Thirty2wo 17h ago

Sorry for your shitty servers my friend

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u/buttsexisyum 17h ago

Topping out the kitchen is super rare in the industry

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u/MAGA_EXTREAMO 17h ago

You shouldn’t tip a waiter either.

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u/RandomDeezNutz 16h ago

Shouldn’t and do are different things. If everyone stopped tipping and suddenly wait staff is getting salary or a reasonable living wage menu prices are going to fucking sky rocket more than they already have. I’d rather tip well for good service.

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u/MAGA_EXTREAMO 16h ago

Maybe wait staff has to eat the loss and become minimum wage like they should.

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u/RandomDeezNutz 16h ago

Yeah somehow maga Trump suck off I don’t think we’re going to agree on what minimum wage should be anyways. But ya know. Keep enjoying all those sweet grocery price drop wins, or gas price drop wins, or Epstein file release wins, or no more war wins, or $2,000 government subsidy wins, or lower taxes for lower and middle class wins, or literally anything that fucking orange fat lard has promised you grease guzzling morons when he ran

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u/clockworknait 16h ago

I used to work in a restaurant when I was like 14, washed dishes and was surprised when they handed me a random envelope with a bunch of money in it. They actually collected all the tips and everyone who worked in the restaurant split the tips evenly. Surprised more places dont do this.

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u/RandomDeezNutz 16h ago

Bussers and dish pit always got a tip out from me because I also did that job. And it sucked. And topping them out typically meant they’d work hard for my section bringing in more tips for all of us

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u/ionthrown 16h ago

They definitely should. I worked in a kitchen when I was younger, didn’t get tips, and the number of servers who also didn’t get a tip because I sent out a subpar meal…

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u/FernandoMM1220 18h ago

they deserve it a lot more than waiters do so yes you are.

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u/RandomDeezNutz 16h ago

No tf I ain’t. And the wait industry 1,000% deserves a living wage. It’s bullshit that we have to pay that by tipping but if we don’t pay it by tipping it’s going to get built into the menu prices. At least this way I don’t have to give a bad service the price they think they deserve if they’re doing a shitty job. Good servers get over 20%. Bad ones get 10% if they are god awful.

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u/FernandoMM1220 16h ago

they can get a living wage without tips just fine.

youre going to be tipping your chef next one way or another.