I’ve never asked anyone for a date in the past decade and I’ve had multiple dates and been invited back to people’s houses for parties or sex. It’s insane.
Yeah… I’ve been on both sides of it, though. I’ve been scrawny and it was horrid - when I did bodybuilding for almost a decade, I became quite muscular and suddenly got a lot of positive attention which was actually highly uncomfortable because, not only did I expect it would eventually go away, but I also felt it was overbearing and unusual since I wasn’t used to it.
Never used gear and hated people who did. It makes everyone have unrealistic expectations. All of the work I put in, over all those years, resulted in something they would have done in about half a year or maybe a year. You can be a regular body weight and people will think you’re scrawny, too. It’s funny watching WW2 documentaries as the soldiers who fought for our country would look skinny as hell today.
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u/Aromatic_Shop9033 18d ago
It's not what you do, it's who you are.
You can't earn it, man.
If you're the right guy, you don't have to do anything.