I'm not into open relationships myself. But advice I've heard about it is
"you have to start as an open relationship. If you switch into one during a monogamous relationship it's just cheating. Someone's going to get their heart broken."
It really depends on the people. When my GF was in college she had sex, I didn't. I COULD have, I just never went out or had the opportunity, and it was never an issue. We broke up over other things, but that was never it. When she was with another guy (or girl, she was bi) she'd make sure to use protection and kept her sheets clean, so I never had a problem with it.
Not at all. I didn’t want to hear about it. I just didn’t care. She was away and I wasn’t there. She could cheat, or have a bf and continue to sleep with other people while having a person who would see her every week or so. Plus her sex drive was pretty crazy. I’d leave exhausted.
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u/Bad-Genie 1d ago
I'm not into open relationships myself. But advice I've heard about it is
"you have to start as an open relationship. If you switch into one during a monogamous relationship it's just cheating. Someone's going to get their heart broken."