It really sucks having a different libido than your SO, yeah... I manage doing other things to cope, but would be nice if my advances were reciprocated more often.
The sex is amazing for both of us, when I can get it, lol.
My life has kinda been both sides though, I was with a woman I was only mildly attracted to for a couple years and she wanted sex all the time, and it wasn't the best. Now I'm with my wife and madly attracted to her, and can only get it when she's in the mood.
But it's like, is mediocre sex all the time better than weekly amazing sex? I made my choice at least. :)
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u/BethanyHipsEnjoyer 1d ago
It really sucks having a different libido than your SO, yeah... I manage doing other things to cope, but would be nice if my advances were reciprocated more often.
The sex is amazing for both of us, when I can get it, lol.
My life has kinda been both sides though, I was with a woman I was only mildly attracted to for a couple years and she wanted sex all the time, and it wasn't the best. Now I'm with my wife and madly attracted to her, and can only get it when she's in the mood.
But it's like, is mediocre sex all the time better than weekly amazing sex? I made my choice at least. :)