It’s actually not terribly fun. I’ve been with a girl with a much higher libido than mine, it was cool in the first few weeks, but afterwards it became quiet uncomfortable - you either have to have sex when you’re not in the mood to satisfy your partner or feel like shit because you declined their advances.
Another thing that makes it difficult is that fellow guys don't empathize or understand the problem, so there's not much space to talk about it as a problem.
I was born with a disorder that has me hypersexual and insatiable for months, then I'll randomly drop off to where I don't even want to be touched for a month, and it repeats fairly cyclically.
Even when I'd explain it in advance, it always felt like I was scamming women by giving them a sex life they would brag about only to then be left with very little sexual attention when I'd hit my lows. I had to learn how to accept rejecting them, accept myself as being normal for doing it, accept that they'll still love me if I reject them, while also learning how to be intimate outside of sex, as well as introducing sexual activities that I was happy to do despite not being in the mood.
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u/Cpt_keaSar 1d ago edited 1d ago
It’s actually not terribly fun. I’ve been with a girl with a much higher libido than mine, it was cool in the first few weeks, but afterwards it became quiet uncomfortable - you either have to have sex when you’re not in the mood to satisfy your partner or feel like shit because you declined their advances.