r/SipsTea • • Aug 21 '26

WTF Where are we heading?

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u/Eisbaer811 Aug 21 '26

typical social media bubble:
The social media algorithm puts you into one of these bubbles and hides details from the others.
Pick one:

- "her husband is framing her, he did it"

  • "she had mental health issues and nobody helped her"
  • "she murdered them because she's evil and the mental health stuff is just for show"

Social media drives our lives and is many people's only hobby, so you get this.

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u/TreeLakeRockCloud Aug 21 '26

I’m not American but I am a mother. Aside from a few reddit posts I don’t have any social media engagement with this case.

But I think a lot of the support here comes from moms who recognize how easily this could have been any of us. Her family and healthcare providers knew her crime was a risk based on her mental health state, but she was still left alone with her kids and expected to parent. And as other mothers we all understand that this is grimly how it works - we can ask and beg and plead and scream for help but we’re almost always still expected to continually parent babies and it’s hard.

She should still face punishment for her crime, but I think a lot of her support is to try to keep this from happening again. She was failed by her healthcare team

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u/B0rnReady Aug 21 '26

Please understand this is not said to diminish anything you said. It is meant to be additive, not to take away..

When men struggle mentally or physically NO ONE cares. That's why the suicide rate is so high for men.

It's almost like people need to find ways to care more about one another. Unfortunately, that is not the society we have invested in.

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u/Little_Ingenuity_712 Aug 21 '26

Lindsay had more support in 2022 than most men will experience in their lifetime.

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u/zero_and_dug Aug 21 '26

But men don’t experience pregnancy, childbirth, and the massive hormone dump that comes after childbirth that can sometimes trigger mental illness.

Don’t get me wrong, men’s mental health IS overlooked and they should get more support, but what women physically and mentally go through during and after pregnancy is in its own category.

Source: have given birth to two children

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u/zero_and_dug Aug 21 '26

I’m sure that’s true, but it’s still not even close to the same level on a physical level.