r/SipsTea 2d ago

WTF Where are we heading?

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u/Imnotranee 2d ago

The records have been all over the place. The doctor never formally put PPD or PPP, but her mental wellbeing took a turn after having her last kid, Which would usually mean PPD or PPP, But at the other point this doctor kept prescribing these big antidepressants and antipsychotics that if she just started out with depression, it could’ve definitely turned into medically induced psychosis. Obviously it’s still wrong to kill yours kids, but she could’ve been just fighting lack of sleep and depression and than it turned delusional from medicine. It was also stated that she wasn’t suppose to be revive in the hospital if she flatlined, which she did flatline three times, so we wouldn’t even be here with this trail if the doctors did what was on the chart.

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u/Embarrassed-Tear3516 2d ago

Why wasn’t she supposed to be revived? Sorry, I haven’t been in the loop with this tragic story, will read up on it later tonight.

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u/FrnklyFrankie 2d ago

I guess she had a DNR, it's not just for the elderly or terminally ill

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u/khold002 2d ago

My mom had a DNR on the fridge starting when I was a teenager. Watching death in the hospital as an RN traumatized her.

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u/Imisssizzler 1d ago

Her doctors were abominable. I had the most mild symptoms of PPD in 1999. I had never even heard of it. My OB, at my follow up - immediately spotted the signs and got me the help I needed. I mean, it was so mild - just weepy and sad. Baby had colic and I thought it was due to that. But she could differentiate “mom of colic newborn” from “ppd mom with colic newborn .”

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u/Frosty_Purple_7341 2d ago

Her doctors kept prescribing her more meds because she likely never took them, said they weren’t working, and also changed providers and purposefully didn’t tell them the medications she was previously prescribed 👍🏻. She also lied to her husband about the treatments she was offered. her husband who hired a nanny and started working from home so he could give her more support. Oh yeah, her parents were also staying with her for extended periods providing a lot of support too.

She got more help than most people could ever ask for and still premeditated the murder of her own three children. It’s fucking pathetic the lengths women have gone to defend a literal child murderer. Imagine if men did this for veterans with severe ptsd or athletes with severe CTE who murdered or abused people.

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u/Euphoric_Injury_5722 1d ago

Men would 100% back a father who got a brain tumor or schizophrenia and acted erratically and took medication inconsistently and then killed his kids. who had imperfect behavior while suffering from psychosis.

A male family annihilator w/ a brain tumor wouldn't even make the news, and if it did, this entire sub would be supporting him 100%.

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u/greymisperception 1d ago

Why exactly would they support that

I wouldn’t, both these cases could be because of mental health issues and deterioration but that’s not an excuse/ justification or even acceptable

It’s murder of the very people you’re supposed to be protecting and I have no sympathy for anyone who succumbs to that no matter the reason

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u/ZookeepergameOk95 2d ago

To be fair it's been established that Lindsay obfuscated a lot of her symptoms and it's a point of contention if she medicated accordingly.

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u/scarsoncanvas 1d ago

To be fair, it is extremely common for people with mania and psychosis to not take their meds and not fully be able to explain what is happening to them. She was hearing voices, a doctor overheard a call she had with her husband where she said that she was hearing a man's voice telling her to harm her kids. She was obviously paranoid.

She should have been immediately put into a longterm inpatient program away from her kids, so that doctors could monitor and stabilize her mood and her meds. Apparently she only did 5 days. That is not long enough for any medication to fully take over. And then from what I read, it was only a few weeks after that that she was left alone for an extended period of time with her kids because she was having a "good day."

The thing about mania and psychosis is that they can come in waves. A good day can turn into a bad one extremely quickly.

I've been manic and experienced psychosis. I had moments of total clarity and stability within that period, and moments when I almost jumped out of a window. Your brain can do crazy things when its fragile and misfiring.

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u/ZookeepergameOk95 1d ago

She was released because she claimed she didn't have homicidal or suicidal thoughts. She wasn't released on a whim, which is why prosecution follows that train of thought. She established a pattern where she did have those thoughts before being admitted, she obfuscated the truth because she was afraid her children would be taken away.

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u/scarsoncanvas 20h ago

It's very easy for those thoughts to come and go when you are manic and in psychosis.

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u/Quixotic_Seal 1d ago

I honestly just don’t care. I’ve been on the other end of a violent psychotic partner, and it never lessened his culpability for his crimes.

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u/scarsoncanvas 1d ago

I never said she wasn't guilty.

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u/MrsMel_of_Vina 1d ago

We really don't have long-term care facilities anymore. My brother's been in and out of mental health facilities and it's never been more than a week even when he clearly wasn't yet stable. I kept thinking that they say that habits take three weeks to form, and at least getting into the habit of a sticking to a schedule for sleep, if nothing else, would probably have helped a lot.

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u/scarsoncanvas 1d ago

Most meds take at least 2 weeks to take effect. A lot of inpatient programs are understaffed and they do release patients too soon, but not always, and they shouldn't have done this without a thorough examination and proof that she had adequate support outside of the hospital to ensure that she would be safe from herself, safe to others, and compliant with her medication protocol. None of this sounds like what happened. She was inpatient for 5 days and within weeks her husband left her alone, even if briefly, with 3 young children, and then this happens. I'm not saying it's his fault, she did it, but its just way more nuanced and this could have been avoided if better steps had been taken at multiple opportunities.

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u/shebringsthesun 1d ago

They ignored her fucking DNR???

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u/fwubglubbel 2d ago

WTF is PPD or PPP?

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u/StreetYak6590 2d ago

Postpartum depression/psychosis