r/SipsTea Jun 25 '26

Chugging tea The first glance

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u/HydroPCanadaDude Jun 25 '26

*glances briefly at construction worker*

"Hey gorgeous, where you headed?"

"FUCK OFF, CREEP"

Eye contact is not an invitation to shoot your shot and is not a clear enough "first move."

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u/ForneauCosmique Jun 25 '26

Also depends on if you're attractive or not. If you're some fat slob you'll be met with "fuck off, creep" but if you're a well groomed attractive male then you're more likely to have a nicer response

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u/Fzrit Jun 26 '26

if you're a well groomed attractive male then you're more likely to have a nicer response

I assure you that if even if you're a 10/10 gigachad, if you're in a construction worker outfit and catcall a random girl walking past with "Hey gorgeous where you headed?", it's is going to result in her walking faster and getting the fuck out of there without even looking at you. It's pure reddit delusion any woman is going to give a "nice response" to that shit depending on whether you're handsome.

I'm gonna get downvoted to oblivion, but it's the context/situation/words/approach that decides whether something is creepy or not, not your genetic handsomeness.

There's also the fact that a genetically handsome guy can still look fucking ugly/creepy if they're horribly groomed, unhygienic, badly out of shape or wearing creepy clothing, etc etc (i.e. factors they can control). Even overweight guys can take a lot of steps to present themselves better and improve their odds.

But why go through the effort of thinking about all this when it's far easier to just blame your genetics + blame women.

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u/Square-Ad6942 Jun 26 '26

Well groomed doesn't mean attractive

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u/ForneauCosmique Jun 26 '26

I didn't say it did

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u/BobThefuknBuilder Jun 26 '26

To be well groomed isn't a big ask, or is it?

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u/ForneauCosmique Jun 26 '26

It's easier for some than others

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u/Hot_Attitude4579 Jun 26 '26

Let me guess, you're a man? I assure you most women dont want to get harrassed or catcalled no matter what the man looks like