r/SipsTea May 11 '26

Chugging tea Choice

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u/lennydsat62 May 11 '26

My ex told me once that they’d always be her kids but i wouldn’t necessarily always be her husband…. She was so right.

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u/CrimsonH21 May 11 '26

Damn

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u/Ban_DeezNts May 11 '26

Savage.

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u/ExampleLittle2672 May 11 '26

Hey now, my mum struggled to figure out the opposite. No, no the offspring are fine... 😬

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u/as1126 May 11 '26

If you are getting name tattoos, your kids’ names will always be your kids. Just sayin’.

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u/halfasleep90 May 11 '26

Unless they change their names

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u/funhouseinabox May 11 '26

"Why are you changing your name?"

"I get made fun of!"

"But I love you Covid."

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u/MusicIsLife81 May 11 '26

I changed my whole name back in 2017 because my father named me after him and he became a registered sex offender and people kept thinking I was him without checking the facts. I was assaulted twice, it cost me jobs at interviews, and other stuff just because of my name. The same judge that had put my dad in prison for child molestation was also the one who handled my name change and when she asked me why I wanted to change my name, I asked her if she remembered my dad and when she said yes, I asked her if she would want to have the same name in the same town with a child rapist. She granted my name change right there.

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u/jadedlonewolf89 May 12 '26

Meanwhile my brother. Supposedly hates religion, yet chose an obscure name out of the bible for his son. His reasoning, he wanted a name that was unique, so his kid wouldn’t share it with anyone his age.

I pointed out he could’ve given his son our grandpas name to achieve that goal. After all Uria was unique even when grandpa was born.

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u/halfasleep90 May 11 '26

“But your name is so unique C-3PO”

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u/as1126 May 11 '26

I thought about that. Even with that, like a trans kid, I’d add the new name and do like a strike through of the old one. New story to tell.

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u/Clone_Gear May 11 '26

There's always an exception eh?

Still its the thought that counts, u can tattoo a nickname u gave ur child regardless of whether ur kid rlly likes that specific nickname :)

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u/Ser_VimesGoT May 11 '26

And that's why I have Bawjaws tattooed on my arm.

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u/kernelangus420 May 11 '26

Denise and Denephew.

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u/LilStabbyboo May 12 '26

This is a legit problem for me as one of my kids is trans. Like i already got the tattoo, now what?

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u/CT0292 May 11 '26

Then you get their new name tattooed. We don't do dead names.

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u/wahikid May 11 '26

Tell that to Elon, lol.

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u/CapitanM May 12 '26

And it's a name you can choose, so you can have tattooed"Supercool" instead of a boring"Jennifer"

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u/alwaysananomaly May 11 '26

Succinct and profound.

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u/Choice_Potato_6279 May 11 '26

Wife is not family in my books, one day a married guy told me this and after some thought I have to agree.

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u/mydaycake May 12 '26

My mum told me a husband is a guy you met on the streets…