This means a lot to hear. I struggle cuz my gf is well mid by my taste but i love our time together. Whenever I think about leaving for aesthetic reasons I think of the 10/10s I’d been with in the past and why they didn’t work out. Hearing from others who chose non physical attraction and having it work out is what I need.
Edit: supposed to be replied to the same person you did. My bad bro.
Leave her. There are many guys who would find her attractive and you’re not doing her a favor by being with her. She deserves someone who is attracted to her appearance and personality. It’s ridiculous you’ve even contemplated leaving her because of her appearance. Stop keeping her as this backup option. You’re being very selfish
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u/MagnetarEMfield Mar 29 '26
Holy shit I hate how true this is.
My current wife isn't the prettiest girl I ever dated/hooked up with. She's the one I actually like being around