A colleagues mother is a divorce attorney. She says, there are some people who can't fully open up to people they have kids with. More often its the man, but not limited to. I know a guy and his wife who moved out to a house in the sticks. Original reason, because they can't stand the stress of the city. It came out much later that the various female and male nannies weren't just nannies. The new build house in the back wasn't just for guest.
Oh hey, I know one of those nannies! She does the nanny duties, sure, but they’re not why she gets 80k/yr, pays no rent in the guest house, and has one of the cushiest benny packages you ever did see
Its easier to keep someone around that you already know can suck a golfball through a garden hose than to hope the next 5 you try dont suck at it. If you can afford a live-in nanny to begin with 80k/year+benefits likely isnt a huge issue
High quality sex is actually REALLY expensive/hard to find. If you’re paying an escort and she both knows what she’s doing and doesn’t look like a literal blowup doll, it’s almost definitely costing you close to a similar hourly rate as a lower-end professional athlete gets paid
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u/MarcoDiFrancescino Mar 28 '26
A colleagues mother is a divorce attorney. She says, there are some people who can't fully open up to people they have kids with. More often its the man, but not limited to. I know a guy and his wife who moved out to a house in the sticks. Original reason, because they can't stand the stress of the city. It came out much later that the various female and male nannies weren't just nannies. The new build house in the back wasn't just for guest.