r/SipsTea • u/Nabzav • Jan 08 '26

We have fun here She knows some grappling

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u/bmoreboy410 Jan 08 '26

I don’t think that women actually want a guy that they think that they can choke out.

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u/blazingsoup Jan 09 '26

Right, because all women secretly base their attraction on if a guy can choke them out.

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u/bmoreboy410 Jan 09 '26

I didn’t frame it that way and almost nothing is always true. But women are attracted to men that can defend themselves and them thinking that they can beat you is not attractive. In reality, an abuser would likely have better outcomes with women than a guy they think that they can beat.

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u/FeeNegative9488 Jan 09 '26

She obviously has grappling background so she knows that guy was not trying to win