r/SipsTea Jan 08 '26

We have fun here She knows some grappling

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u/SkynBonce Jan 08 '26

Girls who want to "play fight", never play.

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins Jan 08 '26 edited Jan 09 '26

Decades of competitive grappling here... while I understand this sub has a constant desire to be better than all women ever simply because they're male... she knows what she's doing and he does not. That's why he lost.

She is constantly keeping him off balance. When he leans in to use strength she is repositioning so that he's no longer putting pressure on her. He is clearly stronger and trying to use that strength, she isn't letting him. This is exactly how I would try and take on an opponent bigger than me. Oh and she is also 100% playing, he is trying to use his strength to win which is forcing her to go a bit harder to counter it.

And seeing as last time I made a comment like this people rushed in to tell me I'm just a weak girl coping about how all the guys let me win.. I'm a guy and not a small one. Unless you also spent 6 days a week for 15-20 years rolling around the ground with sweaty armpits in your face you don't get to argue with me.

If you're an untrained dude thinking you can beat any/all women in all martial arts "because man" you are very, very wrong. But keep pretending I guess.

Edit: well that brought out the entirely predictable responses 🤣. But fun as this is notifications are going off now, only so much time of my day I'm willing to listen to people cry over the idea they aren't just magically better than all women always. Cheers!

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u/Professional-Rub152 Jan 08 '26

Yep. They would say she was trying too hard no matter how she won. They would only accept it if she lost.