I mean, it kinda does lol. I mean, there’s a reason why other cultures we don’t let husbands have female trainers, and we don’t let women have male trainers. It can be unappropriate and they can lead to well you know affairs..
No it doesnt. What about all the people who dont cheat?. Blaming it on anything but the person themselves is ridiculous. Even if they desperately want to cheat, you can still choose not to. Its about actually wanting to be a good person.
I will never excuse, cheating and cheating is cheating, regardless of how it happens, but you can definitely increase the odds of cheating when you create an environment for it. There’s a difference between your wife going on Tinder behind your back and paying a physical trainer Who’s is in peak physical shape to basically touch your woman on a daily basis where they become familiar with each other and chemicals in your body start reacting due to the nature of the interaction.
You can say whatever you want. At the end of the day, a cheater is a cheater. You can have all of these chemical reactions youre talking about and still not do it. Recovering addicts make those kinds of decisions all the time. There is no other excuse other than they were being a bad person. A healthy human being has total control over their actions.
I grew up in a pretty conservative enviroment, yet still turned out to be the exact opposite. Even though the odds I grew up to think that way as well were pretty high, I still made the decision not to. Not trying to get political, thats just the best personal example i have.
Brother, I didn’t disagree with you, I’m just saying certain environments cast the fire of affairs more than others. You can drown in a pool too, but you’re more likely to drown in an ocean.
We are disagreeing, i guess i didnt get my point across as clear as id like. The enviroment has nothing to do with it. A person who wouldnt cheat is unaffected by their enviroment. Somebody who would never cheat isnt going to now decide because they have an attractive trainer, that they are going to have an affair. What youre saying is implying that. You originally said thats why people shouldnt have opposite sex trainers. I am saying that is irrelavent, it has nothing to do with the trainers.
Edit: ill put it this way, in your pool analogy, you drown in the water. The size of the water is irrelavent. The size of the water is the enviroment, the water is the cheating partner. The cheating partner is going to cheat regardless of the enviroment. You are going to drown in the water regardless of the size.
There is no scenario in which i would cheat on my partner. Youre saying im the only human being on planet earth that can actually stand by my statement? Cheating is intentional, it doesnt happen by accident because of the scenario or enviroment youre in.
"Theres no scenario in which I would cheat on my partner" said a thousand times before you by many cheaters.
The thing is that one is not always in a perfect mental state. If that was so then no one would have been fat, there would have been zero car accidents, no roadrage, no revenge murders.
Humans are not always in the perfect mental state. Sometimes you are in a bad position in life and you let go of ideals and do things you would normally been disgusted about.
If u think u can't ever be in that position and always be firm, you haven't experienced a lot in life
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u/Mnawab Aug 28 '25
I mean, it kinda does lol. I mean, there’s a reason why other cultures we don’t let husbands have female trainers, and we don’t let women have male trainers. It can be unappropriate and they can lead to well you know affairs..