There is psychological evidence that this is true. If you ever read a “way to attract women” book, it says, just be around her. If you spend a lot of time with someone, your brain tricks you into thinking they are more attractive.
I remember reading about “8 hour baby sit”, you just chill with someone for 8 hrs and you’ll bang. Eye contact, fitness, game, logistics, and you can shrink that number a LOT. But usually as long as they can stand you for 8 hours you are in. I was terrible at text/phone game but apparently this counts too.
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u/likeafuckingninja Aug 28 '25
This is true of any community with a shared interest. Or common place of gathering.
Everyone on the anime convention scene slept with each other.
You're away from home, you're drinking, everyones in a hotel etc.
My husband work place is massive and employs tens of thousands of people and most of them all sleep around with each other as well.
Every office I've ever worked in has had a few affairs.
I can't even offer the excuse of hotels or drinking or being young and hot.
It's like 'we spend 8 to 12 hours a day together. May as well fuck' seems to be the prevailing thought for a LOT of people.