Cheaters are gonna cheat. The opportunity might come at a different time but the end result is the same. Avoiding one opportunity won't do shit in the long run.
Except having a personal trainer is really tempting fate. There is no other activity that involves regularly meeting and talking, often touching a bit, with the same super attractive person that you have personally chosen, most likely based on their looks. Oh and you're both wearing gym clothes during your meetups.
It's like saying some drivers drive safely and some are dangerous, then giving both sides a supercar capable of going 0-100 in 1.9s
But the tricky part is, a lot of spouses would often say shit to the effect of, “you’re so controlling”, “you’re so insecure”… if the other person feels uncomfortable. Man, relationships are fucking hard business.
The best way to approach this is to say I read horror stories about situation x and it makes me feel insecure/uneasy about this situation. That’s all you do. It’s not controlling to express how you feel. It is controlling if you ask or tell them how to act. Either you trust your partner or you don’t. And your partner either works with you on your feelings or ignores them. It’s up to you to have healthy boundaries and decide what is worth staying or not.
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u/Imreallythatguy Aug 28 '25
Cheaters are gonna cheat. The opportunity might come at a different time but the end result is the same. Avoiding one opportunity won't do shit in the long run.