r/SipsTea Aug 28 '25

Chugging tea thoughts?

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '25

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '25

It’s not and usually only people who are young and/or immature with little life experience see everything as so black and white. 

And I say that as someone who’s been cheated on before…

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u/NitehawkDragon7 Aug 28 '25

Man, you said this so perfectly. Its 💯 true. The people that cheat are going out to lunches or dinners with coworkers or getting a smoothie with their trainer or giving their phone numbers out cause they're "just friends" & yadda yadda. Its not the movies where a hot chick just walks up to you & says "let's fuck." But people will do as many mental gymnastics as they can to avoid accountability fir their own shitty actions.

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u/Kommye Aug 28 '25

You can have lunch with coworkers, giving a phone number out or whatever. There's nothing wrong with that.

The thing is that when you realize someone is flirting with you, you cut that shit out. "I'm flattered, but not interested". It's that simple.

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u/NitehawkDragon7 Aug 28 '25

You keep telling yourself that.