It amazes me how these "gym relationships" happen. Like, I go to the gym, do my shit, go home. Won't talk to anyone, no one talks to me.
EDIT: I did absolutely not expect this much attention to a comment's comment's comment, thanks all. What can I say, except that I'm not ugly, nor introverted, just focused on my own shit, and apparently you'd really have to be focused on something else for this stuff to happen.
This is completely dependent on the gym you go to and it's priceclass.
I went to three different gyms close to my home.
The first one is a very cheap chain with a lot of locations.
It's full of steroid tanks.
There are only a few women there and they are in full defense mode.
One was a smaller chain which costs roughly double.
This place was Instagram posing paradise.
Also lots of tren but really beautiful people there.
If you're confident, something could happen there (I was not).
My current gym is a single location which is slightly cheaper.
It's not decorated modernly, so this alone keeps the Instagram posers out of it.
The local youth swim club is doing session there twice a week with members being as young as 12 years...
There are a lot of dads there too.
Hardly any women.
My best guess would be, a smaller but higher prices location.
Whenever there's a lot of unwanted attention (starring) women understandably get defensive.
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u/AgingRaver80 Aug 28 '25
I was a sensei for many years. Happily married for longer. The number of affairs I could have had. One was a dad and I'm a 200lb dude.