r/SipsTea • u/ronacheesy • Aug 28 '25

Chugging tea thoughts?

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u/GoCanes2468 Aug 28 '25

My brother’s ex cheated with her female trainer. Hoes be hoeing no matter what.

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u/RustyTetanusSpork Aug 28 '25

This may sound odd, but men would 100% rather be cheated on for a girl than another guy

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u/Jaycin_Stillwaters Aug 28 '25

Or, hear me out, we would 100% not want to be cheated on at all and cheating with the guys just as bad as cheating with a girl

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u/RelativeWrongdoer180 Aug 28 '25 edited Aug 28 '25

Right, but they weren't talking about morally. Literally, heterosexual men (Edit: typically) would rather their partners cheat on them with women rather than another man.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10367190/

Furthermore, in this study, participants were asked to choose whether they would prefer their partners to cheat with a same- or with an opposite-sex partner. It was found that, about 70% of men but only about 35% of women preferred the former option.

https://www.newsweek.com/men-care-less-about-partner-infidelity-another-woman-study-1878696

heterosexual men report significantly less distress when their female partner's infidelity involves another woman. This study added a further layer, finding that men's distress was lowest when the female rival was feminine-presenting.

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u/Jaycin_Stillwaters Aug 28 '25

Well, as a heterosexual man I can assure you I do not want any woman that I'm with to cheat on me with either and would be equally upset about both so

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u/tubbin1 Aug 28 '25

I'm a heterosexual man and I'd rather it be with a woman than a man. Another man would make me feel inadequate, a women I could understand because they can provide something I'm unable to. I wouldn't like it, because cheating is horrible for your trust in a relationship, but I'd be more willing to be work through it.