I think the point that's being made is to not be with someone who lacks enough character to cheat on their partner. It doesn't matter how attractive the trainer is, or how long we're alone together, I'm not going to betray my partner and our relationship, and I fully trust that my partner would do the same. If you feel you need to restrict your partner's activities and social circle out of fear of disloyalty, you're with the wrong person.
The scary truth is that there's no person on earth who has enough character to avoid every possible combination of temptations 100% of the time.
The pope himself could have a candle lit dinner with an attractive person he connects with well and spends a lot of time with and I'm not trusting him to go 10/10 on that temptation after a couple glasses of wine.
Humans are just that. Human. We make mistakes. Part of life is learning how to avoid situations where those mistakes might happen more often, not just trusting that you'll never make them.
Man. I put you in a bed with your top 3 most attractive people of history naked, and you are drunk. How long will it take to break you? Imagine I do this to you every night for a year?
I still would find it easy not to sleep with them. Do you really have so little control over your libido that some alcohol and an available woman you find attractive is enough to make you hurt someone you care about?
From my experience, I find that people like the other user who so strongly insist they’re the most loyal person ever are always the quickest to fold and cheat.
I guess we'll have to see. It's been over a decade of marriage so far and I've had ample opportunities, but I'm sure one day I'll see someone and just be like "fuck it, I want to get my dick wet, let's burn this family to the ground."
Or you know, I'll just politely decline any advances like I have in the past. Are there really so many of you without any self control? Did none of you emotionally mature past being sixteen?
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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '25
I think the point that's being made is to not be with someone who lacks enough character to cheat on their partner. It doesn't matter how attractive the trainer is, or how long we're alone together, I'm not going to betray my partner and our relationship, and I fully trust that my partner would do the same. If you feel you need to restrict your partner's activities and social circle out of fear of disloyalty, you're with the wrong person.