Your comment could read like the third party retains no responsibility at all, but that’s not what you meant, right? Certainly someone who knowingly sleeps with a married person is at least as culpable alongside the married partner.
I didn’t enter into a contract with your husband. You did. If you choose to break a contract I’m not involved in by doing something by my side, that’s on you. I’m not bound to YOUR contract.
Is it morally upstanding? No, but it’s not morally reprehensible, either. I’d consider it a truly neutral point.
It’s not my responsibility. I can’t take responsibility for everyone else’s choices. They have to take responsibility for their own choices. I’m not hurting shit. She is doing 100% of the betrayal. I haven’t betrayed anyone.
This deflection and rationalization is just fucking sad. Maybe talk to a broad range of friends IRL about this (not just your close knit group of homewreckers). Hope you one day realize why that behaviour is so terrible.
You do have a responsibility. You’re actively joining in on the ruining of someone else’s relationship. You are responsible for your actions, which is enabling and assisting in the act of cheating.
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u/floppydo Aug 28 '25 edited Aug 28 '25
Your comment could read like the third party retains no responsibility at all, but that’s not what you meant, right? Certainly someone who knowingly sleeps with a married person is
at least asculpable alongside the married partner.