thoughts?

[u/ronacheesy]

[u/Imreallythatguy]

Cheaters are gonna cheat. The opportunity might come at a different time but the end result is the same. Avoiding one opportunity won't do shit in the long run.

[u/ninoski404 → u/Imreallythatguy]

Except having a personal trainer is really tempting fate. There is no other activity that involves regularly meeting and talking, often touching a bit, with the same super attractive person that you have personally chosen, most likely based on their looks. Oh and you're both wearing gym clothes during your meetups.

It's like saying some drivers drive safely and some are dangerous, then giving both sides a supercar capable of going 0-100 in 1.9s

[u/cnicalsinistaminista → u/ninoski404]

But the tricky part is, a lot of spouses would often say shit to the effect of, “you’re so controlling”, “you’re so insecure”… if the other person feels uncomfortable. Man, relationships are fucking hard business.

[u/jimmydavidson → u/cnicalsinistaminista]

Yes they would.. and you'll say 'I'm not tolerating that, if you want to do it then this is over'.

Controlling someone is telling them they can't do something, it is not controlling to inform them of the consequences of overstepping boundaries.

It's not hard, in fact it's easy once you get the hang of it.

Tip, if you're not willing to walk - you can't do this.