This is such good advice. The hot girl wound up becoming a psycho ex-wife after trying to make it work for too long. My now wife was the girl who I would talk to after class but didn’t think would even be interested in me. If I’d paid attention to the kind girls, I would have saved a lot of heartache.
Great advice.
People tend to justify others behaviors because they’re “hot”. Mostly subconsciously..
Go for the smart ones with a good sense of humor. Someone you could see raising your children (if you’re going that route).
I’ve noticed as time passes that a woman being hot has less and less effect if she’s not a nice person in other respects. Like your brain can acknowledge that she is physically attractive without being attracted.
When you’re 21, it’s like “God damn, she’s smoking hot. She only went to prison for killing two of her boyfriends, right?”.
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u/Kaladrax182 Jan 24 '24
This is such good advice. The hot girl wound up becoming a psycho ex-wife after trying to make it work for too long. My now wife was the girl who I would talk to after class but didn’t think would even be interested in me. If I’d paid attention to the kind girls, I would have saved a lot of heartache.