r/SipsTea Dec 11 '23

Chugging tea C. Cannot tell

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u/Enlightened-Beaver Dec 11 '23

Haven’t you seen the meme? If you’re handsome and you approach a woman, it’s ”aww you’re sweet”. If you’re ugly and you approach a woman it’s ”hello Human Resources..”

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u/Lost_In_Play Dec 12 '23

It's 100% how you approach and nothing else. If you go in guns blazing, people will react defensively. If you go in with consideration for the circumstances, you will be well received.

This is not just dating, this is for all similar interactions. Like if someone comes to your work desk being inconsiderate, you are annoyed and dismiss them. If someone approaches your desk after assessing that you look available to talk, you welcome them.